By the men who moil for gold;  

Naughtypursuit 53F  
2049 posts
11/29/2020 2:00 pm
By the men who moil for gold;


There are strange things done in the midnight sun
By the men who moil for gold;

I had prepared a fond farewell post today as my Gold membership was up and I had read that they were no longer giving free gold. I wasn't going to for the site and the services that I mostly use require Gold. Although I do frequent the chat rooms occasionally, send messages does require the auriferous membership.

Low and behold they sent me a message giving me another year of gold, so you are stuck with me for a bit longer. So for those I bid adieu I say bonjour une autre fois.

If you haven't read the Cremation of Sam Mcgee in a while I suggest looking it up, where else can you learn words like "moil"

Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 2:01 pm

There are strange things done in the midnight sun
By the men who moil for gold;
The Arctic trails have their secret tales
That would make your blood run cold;
The Northern Lights have seen queer sights,
But the queerest they ever did see
Was that night on the marge of Lake Lebarge
I cremated Sam McGee.


Fuklikedogs 49M
2670 posts
11/29/2020 3:25 pm

Very nice my tight rounded ass girl to the north


benard69 63M/63F  
5862 posts
11/29/2020 3:37 pm

Ours is up soon and bet we won't be so lucky...


sexyldy1000 60F  
8171 posts
11/29/2020 3:42 pm

Congratulations πŸŽ‰ and β€˜welcome’ back. I too had free gold membership extended for another year. Did you know you can find The Cremation of Sam McGee read πŸ“šby Johnny Cash on YouTube.

Stimulate my mind and let's see what happens
Stepping Back Is Good For the Soul


XHamburgDave 77M  
10464 posts
11/29/2020 3:44 pm

Jo Glad to see you wont be leaving us

Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


allryttguy 61M  
141 posts
11/29/2020 3:56 pm

Hello, Congratulations on another year of ----------- I'll let you fill in the blank. I am in a similar situation without the email. Ha
I love your idea about beating stress, someday dreams do come true
Pk


voyeur2017 58M
1025 posts
11/29/2020 3:57 pm

Congratulations!! A great gift after enduring 2020! Only 20% of membership is female ...so I am happy to know the admin realizes that women really do rule this site !!


drinksprite62 58M
7026 posts
11/29/2020 4:00 pm

Thats awesome! I will gladly put up with ya for another year!


CaptainCock1 66M
29 posts
11/29/2020 4:01 pm

The thought that you will be skating past another year puts a smile omn my face. Or maybe it's an evil grin. You never know behind the mask.


CynicusMaximus 49M
1815 posts
11/29/2020 4:21 pm

Which chat rooms are you loitering in? Lol


boobwhisperer69 58M  
6872 posts
11/29/2020 4:55 pm

Has any man ever received Gold???????? Inquirring minds want to know!!!!!!


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 5:12 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Congratulations πŸŽ‰ and β€˜welcome’ back. I too had free gold membership extended for another year. Did you know you can find The Cremation of Sam McGee read πŸ“šby Johnny Cash on YouTube.
Really, I will have to look it up. Love Johnny... Thank you for sharing.


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 5:12 pm

    Quoting CaptainCock1:
    The thought that you will be skating past another year puts a smile omn my face. Or maybe it's an evil grin. You never know behind the mask.
Lucky for me the eyes tell the story....


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 5:13 pm

    Quoting Fuklikedogs:
    Very nice my tight rounded ass girl to the north
Thank you


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 5:14 pm

    Quoting allryttguy:
    Hello, Congratulations on another year of ----------- I'll let you fill in the blank. I am in a similar situation without the email. Ha
    I love your idea about beating stress, someday dreams do come true
    Pk
I'll wish upon a star for your wish to come true


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 5:15 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    Ours is up soon and bet we won't be so lucky...
I was somewhat very surprised myself soooo keep the faith! Fingers and other digits crossed for you.


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 5:16 pm

    Quoting voyeur2017:
    Congratulations!! A great gift after enduring 2020! Only 20% of membership is female ...so I am happy to know the admin realizes that women really do rule this site !!
We rule the world, last I heard


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 5:16 pm

    Quoting drinksprite62:
    Thats awesome! I will gladly put up with ya for another year!
I hope you can tolerate me....


BiggLala 49F  
29669 posts
11/29/2020 6:30 pm

    Quoting boobwhisperer69:
    Has any man ever received Gold???????? Inquirring minds want to know!!!!!!
Are you asking if any man has ever received "free" gold? If so, the answer is "Yes, several." It's really not difficult to do, but most men are too lazy to "work" for it.

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Paulxx001 64M
19217 posts
11/29/2020 6:38 pm

Hmmm... Good job.
I'll have to read that poem. β—πŸ·πŸ·πŸ˜Ž
Is GOLD really that important? Others seem to manage without that metal. 😢


Massass1963 57M  
1446 posts
11/29/2020 6:47 pm

It has been a long time since I have paid for Gold. I am satisfied with blogging or responding to blogs. Not sure how the site stays in business with more and more people losing and not renewing memberships.
I can't see any benefit to Gold. Sure I can watch women cam for points and buzzes, but that isn't for me. I could email other members, but I know the handful of women (which is what I am interested in) would probably never see it with the thousands of other men messaging, given the distorted ratios here. IM seems to not work well, either. That I've tried with points, but many women claim it doesn't work, or they are inundated. I've had a few conversations, but could tell the women were juggling a dozen or more conversations. In the end few, if any, really meet, and with COVID it is next to none, as expected. Fortunately, I don't rely on this site for my sex life! LOL


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 6:47 pm

I change up my loitering. Have to keep the conversation fresh...


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/29/2020 6:48 pm

    Quoting boobwhisperer69:
    Has any man ever received Gold???????? Inquirring minds want to know!!!!!!
Ummm perhaps one who won a contest?


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/30/2020 4:56 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Hmmm... Good job.
    I'll have to read that poem. β—πŸ·πŸ·πŸ˜Ž
    Is GOLD really that important? Others seem to manage without that metal. 😢
Other people far nobler then I am sure make do. I prefer messaging to blog or im conversations....call me a spoiled brat.


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/30/2020 5:01 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    It has been a long time since I have paid for Gold. I am satisfied with blogging or responding to blogs. Not sure how the site stays in business with more and more people losing and not renewing memberships.
    I can't see any benefit to Gold. Sure I can watch women cam for points and buzzes, but that isn't for me. I could email other members, but I know the handful of women (which is what I am interested in) would probably never see it with the thousands of other men messaging, given the distorted ratios here. IM seems to not work well, either. That I've tried with points, but many women claim it doesn't work, or they are inundated. I've had a few conversations, but could tell the women were juggling a dozen or more conversations. In the end few, if any, really meet, and with COVID it is next to none, as expected. Fortunately, I don't rely on this site for my sex life! LOL
I am not over innundated with emails and am able to respond easily. I just prefer the flow better in emails. I do occasionally watch cams. I enjoy reading profiles of which some are quite interesting. I do not go on IM as its very hard to find a good conversation where the first thing someone asks is for me to send pics.

I have met some wonderful men here in person and just online but I still don't just rely on here because there are generally not many men here locally on the site.


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/30/2020 6:01 am

    Quoting XHamburgDave:
    Jo Glad to see you wont be leaving us
Thank you Dave xo


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/30/2020 6:03 am

    Quoting  :

I know big words can be confusing to some but to think it prevents sex...OMG


Mr00Fun4U 61M  
1055 posts
11/30/2020 7:58 am

Well you certainly deserve another year of gold because the Cremation of Sam McGee is priceless. Damn I had to read about that in my high school years. I can still feel the chill from Lake Lebarge. Anything to honor a friend to the end.

By the men who moil for gold


Tmptrzz 58F
95585 posts
11/30/2020 9:48 am

Congratulation hun on your free gold, I have been waiting for months for them to give me mine back. I hope you enjoy it, and enjoy another great year.


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/30/2020 11:21 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Congratulation hun on your free gold, I have been waiting for months for them to give me mine back. I hope you enjoy it, and enjoy another great year.
Thank you. I hope they do give it back to you, you certainly deserve Gold. Wishing you all the best.


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
11/30/2020 11:22 am

    Quoting Mr00Fun4U:
    Well you certainly deserve another year of gold because the Cremation of Sam McGee is priceless. Damn I had to read about that in my high school years. I can still feel the chill from Lake Lebarge. Anything to honor a friend to the end.

    By the men who moil for gold
Thank you. It was certainly one of the much easier poems to study in school.


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
12/1/2020 6:13 pm

    Quoting  :

That's what I thought but I looked it up and the original version by the author is 'moil". It was later changed by people like Johnny Cash to toil


FWB_76 44M
1 post
12/2/2020 7:00 am

Who knew that logging in to BlackSexMatch.com today would allow me the opportunity to learn the word auriferous...

And as a past resident of NB, I know it's no relation to east-ferous or west-ferous...


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
12/2/2020 11:15 am

    Quoting FWB_76:
    Who knew that logging in to BlackSexMatch.com today would allow me the opportunity to learn the word auriferous...

    And as a past resident of NB, I know it's no relation to east-ferous or west-ferous...
Haha, thank you for the laugh.

Auriferous is a cool word don't you think.

II just with the site would stop stealing word when you write blog.


proteus_2a 55M
7978 posts
12/7/2020 3:14 am

Good to know my lady
- your profile would surely be missed

Thanks for the heads up on the poem btw

Cheers , and keep safe

P


CumsDeep 59M
84 posts
12/11/2020 6:20 pm

As a local man that you never met...I still like you...and despite the fact that I was never gold...and hardly even fiberglass....i kinda got to know you a bit ...and hope you stick around.


CumsDeep 59M
84 posts
12/11/2020 6:21 pm

You spoiled bratπŸ˜›


Naughtypursuit 53F  
2687 posts
12/12/2020 6:27 am

    Quoting CumsDeep:
    As a local man that you never met...I still like you...and despite the fact that I was never gold...and hardly even fiberglass....i kinda got to know you a bit ...and hope you stick around.
I enjoy our banter if it weren't for that one thing.... ummmm


Caele 52M
50 posts
12/23/2020 3:23 pm

Did not think this would end with me searching yT for Sam Mcgee. Interesting times.


edmregularguy 48M
11 posts
12/24/2020 9:11 pm

Robert Service, wrote it during gold rush northern Canada. Well done, well read


Massass1963 57M  
1446 posts
12/25/2020 7:42 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Are you asking if any man has ever received "free" gold? If so, the answer is "Yes, several." It's really not difficult to do, but most men are too lazy to "work" for it.
I am guessing the vast majority of men have NOT received Gold. Not because of laziness, but because the site does nothing to indicate how a man can go about that. I do know that getting "points" by camming and such can lead to Gold. If gaining points through members comes from those sources that rely on "popularity" are the only way, then it is extremely difficult given the ratio of women to men. It is much tougher to "stand out" when your "competition" includes 10 million rather than a couple thousand, as it does for women. Further, women are on here to entertain men, not meet men. They are unlikely to watch men, nor engage in any other points-earning activities. That leaves men to rely on other men to "buzz" them on cams (LOL...does anything like that even exist for men? Never mind....not interested haha)


Massass1963 57M  
1446 posts
12/25/2020 7:46 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Congratulation hun on your free gold, I have been waiting for months for them to give me mine back. I hope you enjoy it, and enjoy another great year.
I is interesting to contemplate how the site makes their decisions on which women to give Gold too. Gee, I wonder why the site doesn't just give Gold to men? haha!
I haven't bought Gold, nor will I ever. Fortunately, I don't rely on the site to provide my sexual encounters, thank God!! LOL


BiggLala 49F  
29669 posts
12/26/2020 11:59 pm

    Quoting Massass1963:
    I am guessing the vast majority of men have NOT received Gold. Not because of laziness, but because the site does nothing to indicate how a man can go about that. I do know that getting "points" by camming and such can lead to Gold. If gaining points through members comes from those sources that rely on "popularity" are the only way, then it is extremely difficult given the ratio of women to men. It is much tougher to "stand out" when your "competition" includes 10 million rather than a couple thousand, as it does for women. Further, women are on here to entertain men, not meet men. They are unlikely to watch men, nor engage in any other points-earning activities. That leaves men to rely on other men to "buzz" them on cams (LOL...does anything like that even exist for men? Never mind....not interested haha)
First, I answered the question he asked, "Has any man ever received Gold?" The answer is "yes". Although, to be technical, one could say that *any* man (or woman) who paid received gold, lol.

Secondly, the question about the amount of men who received *free* gold, is irrelevant. Regardless, yes, the reason the vast majority of men did not receive *free* gold as a part of the now discontinued activity benefit was due to their own laziness. The VAST majority of men refused to keep their profiles updated with pics and content that generated activity to their profiles. The site did in fact list the ways that ALL users (women AND men) could earn *free* gold, so "...the site does nothing to indicate how a man can go about that," is false. The men who received *free* gold, but continued effort into maintaining their profiles.

Another false statement is that "...women are on here to entertain men, not meet men." It might be better to say, "Further, SOME women are on here to entertain men, not meet men." Or should I do the same and say "Men are not here to meet women, they are here to play mind games?" I've met men from here, but I certainly had my fair share of men who pretended to want to meet, but backed out when we made actual plans.

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