Poll..... How long would you wait for a date to arrive? If running late?  

Myshadows69 44M/46F  
21 posts
12/12/2021 10:50 am
Poll..... How long would you wait for a date to arrive? If running late?

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13129 posts
12/12/2021 11:14 am

Hi and welcome to the blogs

30 minutes, tops, unless I hear from them first

If I have to reach out, then that's a bone-kill, and that's a bad, bad thing

positively4you 72F  
4605 posts
12/12/2021 11:55 am

If he wont reach out to me to let me know, if possible, not more than an hour.
His show of disrespect to me shows me he will be a bad fuck. Game over.

PumpkinSpice6 38F  
219 posts
12/12/2021 12:07 pm

I'm sorry that happened to you guys. I usually wait anywhere between 15-30 mins.

jajo696 67F  
4287 posts
12/12/2021 12:09 pm

What Hamo said....30 minutes unless they have called saying they will be late. Even with that....no more than an hour.

Completely disrespectful for them not to notify you. Bad vibes ~

LadiesR2B1rst 59M  
2735 posts
12/12/2021 12:43 pm

If they can't make it to meet you. They should call at least. As far as long to wait for them ? I'm guessing an hour if they are hot.

SharonDW 67F  
1 post
12/12/2021 12:50 pm

If I am running late, even if I think I’ll be five or 10 minutes late due to traffic, I always let the person know. If he can’t at least text me to tell me he’s running late but is still on his way, he is being disrespectful. I think 15-30 minutes is plenty, unless he reaches out. And it would probably be our last date.

Jake1ma69 39M
22 posts
12/12/2021 12:52 pm

I would wait about 30 mins unless they messaged me to say something happened but they were on their way. An hour is very nice of u.

flannel_light 59F
4586 posts
12/12/2021 1:17 pm

I have been stood up more times than I can count and if they live close to the meeting spot, I would give them 30 minutes Tops.

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Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
12/12/2021 1:44 pm

It depends on the situation if he has the courtesy to let me know he is running late then I will wait. But if it's longer than the estimated time he gives, then it's a no go. As things happen.

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AKinkyVegascpl 72M/68F
1 post
12/12/2021 1:46 pm

15 mins tops...... Things happen but experienced & real people will exchange phone numbers

1seeking1 56F  
3767 posts
12/12/2021 2:13 pm

If they show up, half an hour is longest I would wait.

pocogato12 70F  
37236 posts
12/12/2021 3:56 pm

30 minutes max and would haaveto assess any type of message

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DeInSLC 58F  
84 posts
12/12/2021 4:58 pm

I waited 30 minutes for a lunch date, then was about to order when he messaged me. I arrived early, had parked in front of the restaurant, and went inside. He arrived shortly after me, parked in the back of the restaurant, and was waiting in his vehicle. I had BlackSexMatch.com as a way of contacting him, and he had that and my cell number. He eventually sent me a text message right before he was going to leave, so we ended up having a late but wonderful lunch.

The moral of this experience: get contact info before setting out for a meeting, and make sure the other person knows where you will be waiting.

lonlyforlove2 79M  
32704 posts
12/12/2021 5:53 pm

I always arrive early, If I didn't hear in 30 min, I would order and sit back and enjoy a meal in peace, unless there is some definite communication, I think 30 min for the scheduled time is enough.. But it has been a many year since I eat alone!!!!

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boobwhisperer69 59M  
8323 posts
12/12/2021 6:08 pm

You waited ten more minutes than I would have!!!!!!!

Cpllooking6671 55M/51F  
3226 posts
12/12/2021 6:48 pm

Way too long... Would give at most 30 mins and thats with communication starting from them. Also would never drive the hour (you didnt specify if this was a meet n greet or a playdate)- The meet n greet would be held someplace in the middle to both of us. Adna gain Communication has to be from both sides and if they are late its on them to reach out. If it was a playdate scenario it'd still be the same thing but Set up early enought to cancel the room if need be... Sorry you had that happen...

Fun4u3276 59M

12/12/2021 7:27 pm

15 minute absolutely the most I'd wait. If they see they are running late they should text or call; if not, I am out of there. Way too many fail to show. If they show up later than 15 and haven't communicated it is on them and I feel no guilt.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
12/12/2021 11:26 pm

I give it no more then an hour.Sorry you had a no show and you are not the only ones here who got stood up.Most of us have been unfortunately.

exsquid46 63M
640 posts
12/13/2021 12:24 am

Ms. Myshadows69,

If I do not get a call or text from a date stating how late they will be, I will wait about 15 to 30 minutes. If they call or text and tell me how late they will be, then I only wait 5 minutes after the new time.

I have had women that would keep delaying a meeting time by 10 or more minutes each time they called, and refuse to play that game again.

If I am running late I will always text and let them know how late I will be, however that has yet to happen.

SilverFoxMark66 67M  
286 posts
12/13/2021 5:31 am

Hmm, travel round London is usually simple/ easy 'tho occasionally unexpected delays, so would insist on phone exchange beforehand & then msg & wait 30-60mins tops IF she replies & IF we had already confirmed some chemistry/ attraction etc; beyond London is rare for me, so again phone exchange & probably agree meet half way & wait 30mins tops, good question 'tho, thanks for asking

davestev12345 47M  
190 posts
2/14/2022 1:42 am

it would depend on the situation. If they call or text that they are running late, then I would give them 30-60 mins. Life happens and things pop up unexpectedly.
I hate flakes who get cold feet at the last minute. It is really frustrating. I am sorry it happened to you

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