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Newbie not cut for this
Posted:Feb 1, 2022 3:06 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2022 11:1 am
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Longer my journey here is taking, more I am starting to realize that this is not a life style for me. I don’t seems to be sending out right kind of messages to get responses. It seems like every 1 in 20 gets some sort of response back. I seems to attract fakes and scammers. To a point that one of them after conversation try to blackmail me. Sometimes it just feels that maybe I’m too nice and polite for this. We’ll see. I have about two more weeks left until my gold membership runs out, probably won’t renew it. It’s been interesting run. Not holding my breath too much on hope for things changing in last two weeks.
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Confused newbie is back.
Posted:Jan 18, 2022 11:38 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2022 2:13 am
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I made a foolish comment last week that I may not be newbie any more. Well, this week proved have wrong that statement was. I’m getting a lot better recognizing fake profiles. If it looks too good, it will most likely be bad for you in some point. As far as sending message and getting replies, last week seem to have taken me back to week one. I still feel like I have no idea what to say or maybe it’s person who says it. I said it before, I’m a married man, looking for some extra marital affair. Just simply put because things missing at home. Truth is little more complicated than that but we’ll leave for that now. Now, it seems that there seems to be stigma against married men who are looking for affair. This doesn’t seem to effect women same way. Personally I find it comical for someone who is married and looking, to make a comment that they don’t want married men or they don’t like cheaters( and those are some of the nicer comments I have got) when they are doing the same thing themselves. Oh well, everybody their own way. Because of situation, I stopped sending messages to single women, why try to burden them with this. It is my problem, why try to lead them on one way, only to tell them truth later or just disappear after getting what you want. As it is, some ways I’m more confused than I was at beginning, there obviously is a striving community here. It just seem to be out of my reach somehow. I think I have three more weeks left on my gold membership, right now it kind of feels that there is no reason to extent it. Who knows, maybe things will change this week or next week.
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Week 4, maybe not a newbie any more
Posted:Jan 11, 2022 5:05 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2022 11:1 am
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Another week went by, kind of crazy one. Family issues kind of hold back from extra marital adventures. Made few contacts this week and end up stopping one because family issues. Getting easier to navigate peoples adds, scammers are pretty easy to see now. Still not sure with a right approach with messages. Sometimes it’s just feels that honesty doesn’t seem to get you anywhere. I know honesty is weird word from someone who is looking extra marital activities. Well, it is new year, hopefully everyone is staying safe with Covid, recent variant seem to be wrecking havoc across the country.
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Newbie slowly learning
Posted:Jan 3, 2022 7:57 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2022 11:1 am
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Another week went by. More messages send and not really getting answers. Slowly started think maybe it’s just not what I put messages which is the problem. Maybe it’s just me. Maybe I was coming across the creepy old man that everyone avoids 🤪. Well, being a newbie and not paying attention some of regulations here in BlackSexMatch.com. Me being a gold member and sending messages standard members. I don’t have extra paid where they can reply my messages( not saying that it makes a difference, I could still be that creepy old man 🤷‍♂️). Who knows. Well, I am slowly learning. One step at the time, I know I won’t ever be most fluent charmers( not just in my build), I will show honest interested people I contact, either things you like or how you look.

Just in case you are interested contact outside of BlackSexMatch.com, I will put my email here at the end. I am always interested meet new people, maybe even learn something new.

King4aday51 at outlook dot

Anyone else, good luck with new year starting. Hopefully this will be year when we get rid of Covid.
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Another week in newbies world
Posted:Dec 26, 2021 11:38 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2022 11:1 am
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Another week gone by. Christmas came and went. This week brought in some conversation with people in BlackSexMatch.com. Some odd and expected ones. I was approached by email scammer, asking money for video chat confirmation because her phone and computer couldn’t connect to any free video chat services around now. That request stopped that conversation. Also got a message from girl, offering her services. Politely told her that I’m not looking for that here. Send few more messages but no replies. Maybe people busy because of Christmas or it’s just me . It is a odd world, this adult hook up, swingers, dating. I do get fair amount visitors on my profile, I seems to be attracting lot of Asian women who are living far away . Another oddity I have come across here. Oh well, what can you do than just keep on going.
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Newbie in adult dating world.
Posted:Dec 20, 2021 12:09 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2022 11:1 am
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Yes, I am very much a newbie for adult dating. Last time I did anything like this, dial up modems were used to connect to internet and you were for pen pals instead of hook up partners. I’ve been lurking in corners for couple weeks now, trying to learn the right kind of behavior. It’s easy to have wrong kind of expectations when you join these sites. You see advertising for these sites and they advertise how easy it is to find hook ups. Not quite that true unless you are certain type. , hot, single, well endowed for guys. There are few other ones too. In my case, I think I have highest hill to climb( at least it seems like it to me). I am older, 51 years old. Strike one. Strike two, I am married and my wife doesn’t know that I’m here. Strike three, I’m not physically in great shape, more of dad bod. Strike four is that have been worried/paranoid putting my picture up in fear or wrong person seeing it. I know, I know, shouldn’t be cheating. I have my reasons, maybe I’ll explain them in next post. Adding all those together because I am being honest( odd conception for someone trying to cheat, being honest)about it, makes a hill to climb pretty high.

Also being a newbie for all this, trying to yourself with profile setup, sending messages is not that easy. Being someone who haven’t done any kind of dating in last 30 years, modern day lingo and online behavior is more than weird. I’ve tried send few messages in here, both with being curious about their profile or just straight out being suggestive, with same results, no answers bac

In overall, this is very weird world for unexperienced newbie. Oh well, there is always hope for tomorrow.
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