Newbie in adult dating world.  

King4aday1970 52M
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12/20/2021 12:09 am
Newbie in adult dating world.


Yes, I am very much a newbie for adult dating. Last time I did anything like this, dial up modems were used to connect to internet and you were for pen pals instead of hook up partners. I’ve been lurking in corners for couple weeks now, trying to learn the right kind of behavior. It’s easy to have wrong kind of expectations when you join these sites. You see advertising for these sites and they advertise how easy it is to find hook ups. Not quite that true unless you are certain type. , hot, single, well endowed for guys. There are few other ones too. In my case, I think I have highest hill to climb( at least it seems like it to me). I am older, 51 years old. Strike one. Strike two, I am married and my wife doesn’t know that I’m here. Strike three, I’m not physically in great shape, more of dad bod. Strike four is that have been worried/paranoid putting my picture up in fear or wrong person seeing it. I know, I know, shouldn’t be cheating. I have my reasons, maybe I’ll explain them in next post. Adding all those together because I am being honest( odd conception for someone trying to cheat, being honest)about it, makes a hill to climb pretty high.

Also being a newbie for all this, trying to yourself with profile setup, sending messages is not that easy. Being someone who haven’t done any kind of dating in last 30 years, modern day lingo and online behavior is more than weird. I’ve tried send few messages in here, both with being curious about their profile or just straight out being suggestive, with same results, no answers bac

In overall, this is very weird world for unexperienced newbie. Oh well, there is always hope for tomorrow.

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