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Watching your wife have sex with another man Part 1
Posted:Jan 11, 2022 8:50 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2022 11:38 am
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Voyeurism. Many suggest that we live in a pornified culture; where most men of college-age and older have seen pornography, and use it as a part of their sexual repertoire. If they are used to such a voyeuristic process in their sexuality, there is some legitimacy to suggesting they may incorporate it into their marital sexuality. Watching your wife have sex with another man may be a next step, or progression, from watching yourselves have sex by having a mirror on the ceiling, then using a video camera during sex, and finally watching ones spouse with someone else. Many men told me, My wife is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. Id rather watch her having sex than some porn actress I dont know.

Sperm competition. As Christopher Ryan, author Terry Gould, and researchers Baker and Bellis have suggested, there is a biological response playing out here, one that affects a male sexual drive. After watching their wife with another man, the husband is prompted biologically to have longer, more vigorous sex, has a shorter refractory period between erections, ejaculates harder, and his ejaculate contains more sperm. Nearly every couple I interviewed told me that after an episode of the wife having sex with another man, the couple felt like they were in heat.

The thrill of the taboo. There are few things in our society as stigmatized as a husband whose wife is unfaithful. Historically, such men have been beaten, ostracized, and ridiculed, and regarded as weak, sissy men. Some of the men I interviewed described explicitly that the taboo was the thrill for them, from the excitement of the forbidden and the naughty.

Female empowerment. I was surprised by how many of these couples embraced powerful feminist principles, and how many husbands described the joy they felt at their wifes increased independence, confidence, and assertiveness, coming from her freedom to have sex with other men. Many of the men expressed that through their wifes open sexuality, the couple was actively and consciously rejecting social pressures to suppress female sexuality, assert monogamy and patriarchal power.
Bisexuality.

For more than half of the men I interviewed, male bisexuality played a role in the husbands desire to watch his wife have sex with another man. This played out in different dynamics. Sometimes, bringing a man to bed with the wife was a pretexta bait and switch if you will for the husband to then engage sexually with the man as well. Sometimes, the husbands were very concerned about being seen as heterosexual, but they spent an awful lot of time looking for well-endowed men for their wives. To my mind, a man who is that focused on the size of other mens penises really doesnt qualify as all that straight.
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So you want a Hot Wife?
Posted:Jan 3, 2022 9:11 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2022 4:06 pm
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So you want a hot wife? The fact that she is your wife does not prevent her from enjoying sex with other men. And the fact that you are married her does not mean she should be denied sexual experiences with other men that she used enjoy before you married her. The hotwife equally needs the pleasure and excitement that comes as a result of having new sexual partners. But the big question that people normally ask themselves is how they can turn their wives into a hotwife.

In as much as this question could be difficult for many people to understand, but the issue of one getting his wife to have sex with other men has become a hot topic of discussion. Many authors on this topic have frequently warned readers that, the truth on the ground is quite as compared to fantasy about the issue of one man letting his wife have sex with other men. One should note that this fantasy of turning a wife into a hotwife does not start at the beginning of the affair or immediately the couples begin living together. But it always begins when the couples have known one another for quite a long period of time. It begins after you have known one another so well that they can risk opening the relationship. In as much as being that kind of woman was once viewed as a disgrace by society, but in this new digital error of female sexual liberation, most wives wouldnt mind confessing that they enjoy the freedom of going to bed with men that interest them.

Being what is referred to as a hotwife is a beautiful option for many women outside there more so if they feel their marriage is fully secure. The fact that the hotwife is married makes her desirable to many men because she is not going to demand being married or getting impregnated. In fact, a hotwife presents free and no-strings-attached sex.

However, it is good to note that there are many wives outside there who are not interested in becoming hotwives. Despite the fact that they might have had several sexual partners before she got married, they dont like the issue of the hotwife thing. It also depends to a larger extent on the nature and how frequently her prior sexual experience was. The statistics show that those women with a long history of pairing sex with dating dont mind being hotwives. The only difference is that they now owe their allegiance to their husbands.

The topic of how to turn you into a hotwife can only be discussed between the couples if; the two partners have talked about it, agreed on the rules to be observed, and have both unanimously agreed to move in that direction. Secondly, the wife has sought the husbands approval in that direction. And thirdly, the husband has deeply thought about the issue and does not only want his wife to have sexual intercourse with other men but is also committed to weathering the storms that may arise as a result of turning the wife into a hotwife.

Even though most husbands would not welcome the idea of turning their wives into hotwives, but there are many husbands who can handle it without any problems. As a matter of fact, a few have claimed this arrangement has saved their marriage more so if the sex within the marriage has diminished. But you should be careful enough not to force your wife into it. She should be okay with it. The following are some of the gradual approaches that you might use to turn your wife into a hotwife.
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What is a MILF?
Posted:Dec 29, 2021 11:42 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2022 4:06 pm
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You may have heard the term MILF in daily conversation or in music or movies and wondered what exactly is MILF? Put simply, it refers to an older woman who is very attractive and stands for Mother Id Like to Fuck. This slang term has become very popular in recent years despite first being introduced over a decade ago. Here is even more information about the term to help you understand when you can use it correctly.

Part 1: What Does MILF Mean?
MILF is also sometimes written as milf, m.i.l.f., or M.I.L.F. This acronym stands for the phrase Mother/Mom Id Like to Fuck or Mother/Mom Id Like to Fornicate with. The word is always used to describe an attractive mother and the woman can be the mother of your girlfriend, friend, or even acquaintance. It is generally used for mothers in their 30s, 40s, or 50s that are incredibly attractive to the point to which a young male (typically the one using the term) would want to have sex with her even if it meant ruining his relationship with his girlfriend or friend.

The fantasy behind the term MILF is designed to combine the danger associated with committing some sort of act that is forbidden with benefiting from the sexual knowledge of being with an older woman with experience. Some males are aroused by the idea of having sex with a mother figure who takes care of them in some way (such as making them sandwiches). Other men want to penetrate the area that their friend came from. Yet others see a MILF as the ultimate means to winning an argument by saying something such as I had sex with your mother but truly meaning it as opposed to simply saying it in a joking matter, like the phrase (and similar ones) are usually said.

Is MILF Offensive?
Understanding what is MILF (the meaning of MILF) is not enough, you may want to know the connotation--whether or not it is a good word. Whether or not the term MILF is offensive will depend on the person you are asking. Some women do indeed find it to be offensive, while others see it as a compliment as it implies that they are very attractive to men who are much younger, including those who could be their based on age.

Many women who are close to menopause feel power associated with being referred to as a MILF. They see the designation as indicating that they have a prolonged youth, a sharp contrast to the historical view of aging women; who as crones who may be wise, but dont have sexual worth after losing their fertility.

What Is MILF History?
The acronym MILF first became popular in the movie American Pie, a comedy that was released in 1999. After this, there were various references in pop culture, including Fountains of Waynes song Staceys Mom which was released in 2003.

The increase in popularity of the term MILF has occurred fairly parallel with that of the term cougar, which refers to sexually voracious older women who pursue relationships or sexual encounters with younger men.

Part 2: Whats the Difference Between MILF and Cougar?
Some people can find it confusing to differentiate between a MILF and a cougar as both involve older women and younger men. The simplest difference is that a MILF is someone with who you (as the younger male) want to have sexual relations, while a cougar wants to have sexual relations with you. In either case, it is possible if the sexual desire is reciprocal, but it is not necessary. Additionally, a cougar does not necessarily need to have any , although MILFs must. The term cougar also tends to refer to women who are more sexually aggressive. Both terms are frequently used in pop culture, but the biggest difference to take away is that the younger man wants to have sex with the MILF while the cougar wants to have sex with a younger man.

Part 3: Related Acronyms
Keeping in mind that the term MILF stands for Mother Id Like to Fuck it is possible to swap out the first word œMother or Mom for another. Other popular terms include FILF (Father Id Like to Fuck), GILF (Grandfather Id Like to Fuck), and GMILF (Grandmother Id Like to Fuck).

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Beginners Guide To Anal Sex
Posted:Dec 26, 2021 10:24 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2022 10:46 am
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To most people, first-time anal sex is usually accidental or ill-prepared thus giving a poor first-time impression. As a result, most individuals usually write it off because of the bad experience they had during their first time. The taboo that many people have actually imposed on themselves about anal sex is actually making them miss out on the joy of anal sex and the pleasure that comes through anal penetration. The anal and the rectum are very sensitive areas. In addition, there is a wealth of muscles and nerve ending around the anus, and the right kind of touch can actually feel fantastic. So whether you think it feels good, or if you are curious or your partner is asking you to try it, below are some beginner's guides to help you have an amazing experience.

Relax your mind and body.
It is very important to first sit down and relax your mind and body especially if you are trying anal sex for the first time. Also, try to relax your anal muscles. For instance, you can tighten your anal muscles by squeezing your butt muscles and then hold in that position for a few minutes then release just to see how it feels.

Use a condom.
Using a condom is a very good idea even if you are faithful to your partner. There are many benefits of using a condom: first, it prevents bacteria from the bowel from spreading, and second, it prevents you from getting an infection and also the spread of STIs and STDs.

Use lots of lubrication.
Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubrication. This means that you actually have to use an artificial lubricant to make the penetration enjoyable and comfortable for you and your partner. However, you should be very careful about which lubricant to use because of not all lubricants are safe. Some can actually do more harm than good. Water-based lubricants are the most recommended because they do not contain dangerous chemicals that can harm you.

Communicate.
This does not only apply to anal sex, it actually applies to all types of sexual activity. Make sure you communicate with your partner about your desires and fear for anal sex. Even when you are trying anal sex for the very first time communicate constantly with your partner and let him know how you feel, if it feels good or if it hurts, or if you want him to move slowly or quickly. This will not only make you feel comfortable but will make the experience more enjoyable.

Clean up.
If you are worried about coming in contact with poop, go to the bathroom and clean up your bowel first. It is very important to clean up the anal area before engaging in anal sex especially if you don’t want to turn off your partner. By cleaning up, you will also minimize the risk of infections before and after engaging in anal sex. However, it is not recommended to go from anal sex to vaginal sex because it can actually lead to infections or even more serious complications. To get started you and your partner should both read some great stories here: Anal sex stories
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How to pick a person for a threesome
Posted:Dec 22, 2021 9:39 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2022 10:46 am
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Sometimes you might decide to invite someone else into your bedroom for a threesome experience. The problem is that you might not be sure who you should invite. At this point, you should be careful because there are some people that you can invite and they may end up disappointing you. You should sit down and base your arguments on facts that will lead you to choose the best third party. Here are tips for you to choose the right person for your threesome encounter:

Choose a person that you are all attracted to
Threesomes will only work after you choose someone that you will all be attracted to. Before you decide to invite anyone to your bed, try to carry out prior research and know whether you are choosing the right person. You should take the opinions of each of you into consideration before you decide to call the person.

Check on your mental attraction
For anybody that you invite into your bedroom to easily fit in your threesome party, you should have a mental attraction towards the person. You should take time and talk to the person before inviting him or her to your bedroom. In case you have the same field of thought, then that is the right party for you to invite.



Mature emotion intelligence
The person should be ready to express his or her feelings and be ready to excuse themselves whenever the need arises. The person should be ready to express his or her feelings in such a way he will not make one of you uncomfortable. There should be always constructive discussion during the encounter. A close friend often makes a good choice for a third.

The person should respect your relationship
Even if you are inviting the person for you to form a Threesome, you still have a relationship with your partner and he or she should be ready to respect it at all times.

The person should practice safer sex
For the relationship to work well, the person that you will invite should be ready to practice safer sex. There are different risks in sex, failure to practice safer sex might have you regretting the encounter with the person. First, take your time and assess whether the person is responsible during sex.

Sexual intelligence in the person
The person should have sex intelligence where he or she is ready to talk about different types of sex and practice them. This will easily lead you to enjoy your group sex. The main reason for starting a threesome is to try and explore new adventures in sex, the person that you should invite should be well informed about different sexual encounters that will make your threesome enjoyable.

The person should understand what you want
There are some goals you will like to achieve in your sexual revolution. You may like to have a situation where the person that you will invite will help one of you who has a low sex drive to satisfy the other. The person should know that and be ready to play the part. You can easily make the person know about your goals by talking to the person prior to starting your sexual encounter.
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Three Reasons to try a Threesome
Posted:Dec 21, 2021 9:21 am
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2021 9:24 am
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In threesomes, you will be participating in a sexual adventure that involves three people. This will lead you to explore more options in the sexual encounter. Your sexual life may be boring, you will easily transform the marriage into a lively adventure after you decide to engage in threesomes. For your threesomes to be adventurous, you should take your time and discuss between the two of you so that you will have the best third party.

n case your husband has less sexual drive, then you should consider introducing a third party who will be a man. In case the wife is the one who will need support due to her low sexual drive, then you should consider introducing a woman. Here are some of the benefits you will enjoy after you decide to embrace threesome:

To Be Continued
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To many phobias...
Posted:Dec 18, 2021 12:02 pm
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2021 5:08 pm
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One bi-sexual act does not make you gay!
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10 ways to start swinging
Posted:Dec 16, 2021 11:07 am
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2021 9:08 am
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If you've been fantasizing about swinging and just don't know how to get started, we're here to come to the rescue. After reading our tips for beginners you'll see that adopting the swinging lifestyle is much easier than you might have thought.

1. Consider Your Reasons

When couples first start talking about swinging together, it's important that they discuss their reasons for adopting this new lifestyle. There can be healthy reasons such as wanting to spice up their intimate life, and there can be unhealthy reasons such as one partner simply wanting to appease another. If you're looking at swinging as a way to fix a broken relationship, you might be disappointed. The swingers lifestyle is generally for strong, healthy couples looking for a little adventure. If this doesn't sound like you, you might want to reconsider.

2. Talk about Expectations

There are many options in the world of swinging; swinger parties and swingers clubs, swinging with other couples or people of the same sex. Chances are you and your partner have a few fantasies you'd like to play out together.

3. Set Some Ground Rules

An important step for beginners is to set some ground rules up front. For example, if you are both at a swinging party or club and one of you wants to leave early, is it okay for the other person to stay behind? Should you always be in the same room together? Are you comfortable watching your partner be with someone of the same sex? No doubt you probably have some preferences and expectations - make sure you talk about this up front.

4. Create a Persona

Most swingers like to keep this part of their lives private and so they create personas to be used online and at parties and clubs. Lots of swinging couples make up fake names and this is perfectly acceptable in the swinging world.

5. Meet Online

One of the best places to find other swingers to hook up with is online. The Internet is filled with adult dating sites where you can meet couples and individuals willing to meet or come to your home. You and your partner simply create a catchy profile with photos and then start searching through member profiles. Strike up a dialogue with people you are interested in and make a plan to meet up.

6. Consider your Options

Once you find couples or individuals you're attracted to, set up a time to talk on the phone and then meet in person. It's probably a good idea to meet for just drinks the first time so you have the chance to check each other out and set up a second meeting. If you don't feel a connection, just be honest and move on.

7. Check out Swinging Clubs

There are probably quite a few more swingers clubs in your area than you were aware of. A quick online search will let you know where they are and how to participate. You can also ask other swingers you meet online on adult dating sites. Before you go, find out if the club is open to everyone or couples only. Also, find out if they have special theme nights.

8. Try Out a Swingers Party

If you are invited to a swingers party, here are a couple of things to keep in mind:

Arrive on time
Smell and look good
Don't be pushy or unfriendly
Practice safe sex
9. Respect People's Privacy
When you meet another swinging couple or individual, respect their right to privacy by not asking too many questions. Unless you've been given advanced permission, don't take any photos or video. Don't take it personally if they don't want to see you again. Many swingers want to stay as anonymous as possible.

10. Have Fun

The swingers lifestyle should be fun and exciting. If you're finding that it is causing tension or drama in your relationship, just stop. This alternative lifestyle is not for everyone and should only be pursued by couples who are truly enjoying themselves.

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Bi-Sexual Myths...
Posted:Dec 14, 2021 11:06 am
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2021 5:08 pm
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Some people think that being bisexual means your sexual experiences have to be 50/50. Seriously, if you say you're bisexual people want the receipts. They want to know how many men and women you've slept with, how long you check out a man versus a woman, and of course, "WHO DO YOU LOOK AT FIRST?!"

But it's not an exact science. I probably was more woman-leaning for a while, but then it shifted. Some people never act on their bisexuality at all, but that doesn't make them any less bisexual.

It also may take a while to realize that you're bisexual, or you might know right away. And that's OK, too. I know bi people who didn't have any experiences until their 30s, but that doesn't make them any less valid.

One of the ways people made it clear they weren't convinced about me was by making it very known that they refused to date bisexuals. Yes, that's a thing. Some people, regardless of gender and orientation, just straight up say no to you if you are a bisexual.

In fact, on some female-focused dating apps, women can request on their settings not to see bisexuals at all. I mean, I wouldn't want to end up on a date with someone who would not want to date me, but it's still not a nice feeling to know that others just rule you out completely.

Some people might experiment sexually and find out they don't like something ” and that's fine that's what experimenting is for. But bisexuality is an orientation, its not a phase. One study found that 92 percent of people who identified as bisexual still identified as bisexual a decade later. That is not a phase.

Being bisexual is not something I have ever felt ashamed of, but I've definitely found it challenging at times because of people's assumptions and treatment. It's 2021. It's time to get over these misconceptions about being bisexual. If you want to know the truth about what it's really like, we're here, just ask us.

This goes both ways, either male or female...
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Psychology of Swinging
Posted:Dec 13, 2021 9:43 am
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2021 5:09 pm
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Sexual swinging can be a difficult negotiation. Intimate couples who choose to openly bring other sexual partners into their relationship might have difficulty handling the people and the emotions involved. Swinging only works if there are high levels of trust and communication among everyone involved.

Sexual swinging can be a difficult negotiation. Intimate couples who choose to openly bring other sexual partners into their relationship might have difficulty handling the people and the emotions involved. Swinging only works if there are high levels of trust and communication among everyone involved.

History
According to "The History of Swinging from the 1950s Until Now" by Dr. Robert McGinley, many cultures attached no stigma to sharing married partners. In America, wife-swapping gained notoriety in the 1950s, and by the 1970s swing clubs had opened in California and New York.

Motivation
Couples might enter an open relationship out of boredom, curiosity, to please one partner, or to fulfill a fantasy. The sexual adventure may be a one-time event or lead to a lifestyle choice or a protracted relationship with a new sexual partner.

Considerations
Swinging involves other people who might not share your specific desires and feelings, meaning the relationships are unlike personal fantasies and can become complicated...

Warning
Communicate openly to your partner about swinging. Include in your discussion what behaviors are OK, with whom and of what gender, and under what circumstances. Couples can break up due to a swinging incident that did not go as expected.
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Want to have a bisexual MMF threesome.
Posted:Dec 11, 2021 2:11 pm
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2021 2:13 pm
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You are thinking I could potentially be into this, it might be time to consider having a threesome with a woman and another man. Lots of bicurious guys report fantasies about mixed-gender threesomes. I think the appeal of this scenario is that it seems less intimidating than hooking up with just another guy,œA lot of bicurious guys worry about what it means for their sexuality if they experiment with another guy, so being able to explore that with a woman present might make it less intimidating.

For many of us, threesomes are the kind of sexploits that only happen in the movies. But they don't have to be permanently relegated to the realm of fantasy. With a little forethought and planning, you can make a three-way tryst a very sexy reality.

Before I was into all of this I was completely oblivious to my surroundings. Now that I recognize like-minded people, it is easy to sense someone's vibes. Is actually shocking how many people (especially couples) are on adult dating apps looking to find a new recruit.
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9/24...MILF posts
Posted:Sep 24, 2022 4:16 pm
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MILFs are cool

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Are you a voyeur?
Posted:Jul 4, 2022 10:55 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2022 3:04 pm
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Would you rather watch than actually engage in sex?
Watching
Engaging
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