Sometimes I Wonder  

Blueyedguy823 55M
523 posts
6/8/2020 6:32 am
Sometimes I Wonder


There are a lot of mysteries life online. Especially here.

I wonder how many pictures of wives there are on here without her actually knowing.

I wonder exactly what percentage of female profiles on here are legit.

I wonder how many couple profiles there are where the husband is really the only one using it. (I know there are a few where maybe she lost interest in swinging... Or maybe where he lost interest)

I wonder how many people are where their profile says they are.

I wonder how many people are surprised find out that they are BlackSexMatch.com not the site they signed .

I wonder how many women who say they are bi-curious actually find a woman with. (Same for the men)

sonic_n_sideshow 49M/51F
15101 posts
6/24/2020 8:08 am

I wonder that too. I haven't been in the blogs for about 4 or 5 years, but back when I was here a lot I found the people here were actually legit and many quite lovely. We used to meet up at blogger bashes and felt very connected.

I have since found a site that kind of focuses more on real events and interactions (Munches and such) and find more value there as I prefer face to face with people and knowing they are legit.

I am a celebration of willful chaos and a hugger.


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/24/2020 8:19 am:
I agree 100%. Thanks for your comment!

missthee 56F  
4511 posts
6/16/2020 8:25 am

Yup, too many fakes, too many exaggerations, too many liars.
That's why I stick to the blogs.
Trouble is, most of the newer members log in via smartphone and they are not aware of the blogs.


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/18/2020 6:51 am:
missthee, I agree about how more and more are logging in via smartphone. They should come up with a really good app. It would be a hit.

secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
6/12/2020 4:01 pm

I wonder a lot myself....


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/15/2020 9:54 am:
And I kind of wonder about you, secret_lade. I wonder what is the secret? Why are your pictures all about your toes? Why am I oddly attracted to your toes? Why am I asking all these questions? I wonder...

lust4life59 63F  
2552 posts
6/9/2020 7:01 pm

I just wonder at times what I'm doing on here, never mind anyone else lol


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/15/2020 9:51 am:
Me too, Lust4... Me too.

keithcancook 65M
18358 posts
6/8/2020 9:28 am

Your wonderings have crossed my mind as well. But, only briefly. I long ago determined that blogging is why I come here.

And why I keep coming back.

blog on!


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/8/2020 11:22 am:
Its good to know I'm not alone! Thanks for your comment!

Blueyedguy823 55M
1077 posts
6/8/2020 7:40 am

I also wonder why a bunch of words that I type in blogs are missing.


1seeking1 57F
3767 posts
6/8/2020 7:14 am

Yes lots of mysteries, deceit, adultery here. The only way to truly know if they are real is to meet in person. Then you get the no shows and the ones who I can not recognize from their outdated pic. Not meeting new people during pandemic that's for sure. Best of luck, I enjoy the blogs, some amazing bloggers here.


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/8/2020 7:37 am:
I like the blogs too, 1seeking1. Seems to be the most authentic way to share.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
6/8/2020 7:11 am

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    i am here for the blogs...
    so i don't wonder who is doing who or why nor do i care if someone is getting to much and the other none.
    and when the blogs go
    so shall i
    bonne chance
There is way more interaction on blogs than just profiles.I met my last two lovers here through my blog..There are a lot of fakes, scammers and other things on profiles only.I find the real ones here are the bloggers, both male and female...Good post..xoxo


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/8/2020 7:36 am:
Thanks for sharing, Auther51! I always look forward to reading what you have to say!

dogslife2live01 70M

6/8/2020 6:58 am

i am here for the blogs...
so i don't wonder who is doing who or why nor do i care if someone is getting to much and the other none.
and when the blogs go
so shall i
bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/8/2020 7:00 am:
Anymore, I'm primarily here for the blogs too! I actually find more interaction.

Blueyedguy823 55M
1077 posts
6/8/2020 6:34 am

Maybe I'm just too analytical. A lot of my job is looking at stats, ratios, scoring performance. I hate to say it carries over into my BlackSexMatch.com life too!


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