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A Quote from Blondie
Posted:Oct 16, 2019 5:56 am
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2019 10:35 am

"Sex is what make everything happen. Sex is why people dress nice, comb their hair, brush their teeth and take showers." ~ Debbie Harry
I don't even know how to title this.
Posted:Oct 7, 2019 1:51 pm
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2019 12:30 pm

A lot of people hate Mondays. Personally, I look forward to them. I have a bunch of people who work for me of all ages. Two of them are a and a . Both of them are single and they are both pretty... well pretty. They are both attractive.

The came into my office today and said she and her mom were talking about me this weekend. And Mom said that I would be the kind of guy that would be good to date... so she (the 24 year old ) asked me out!

I said no. Primarily because there is no upside to it when it comes to work. Dating employees can be really really sketchy. PLUS I'd be more interested in her mom. Anyway... its flattering. But no thanks. Fortunately there was someone else nearby. And I hope they overheard everything, especially the part where I said NO.
SHould I Stay or Should I Go?
Posted:Oct 1, 2019 6:18 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2019 6:35 am

I am amazed at the number of mid-20's women that reach out to me and flirt with me, a 50-something year old guy. They all seem to have these things in common: 1) They don't look at my profile; 2) They are from another state or region; 3) They all have one photo in their profile.

It is almost like I'm being baited to pay for a membership again. As I'm writing this, I have received 2 more flirts. 3 more...

The US FTC just came down on M-at-ch dot-com for similar practices.
Women are Objects
Posted:Sep 25, 2019 9:07 am
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2019 10:19 am

Thanks for clicking on that bit of bait. Before you get angry: I don't believe that... anymore.
I used really treat women like sexual objects. I have come that understanding lately and it only took to decades to figure that out. To be honest, I have cared about women that I dated. I loved some of them too, to the best I knew how.

A lot of the time though, it was about what I could get from a relationship with a woman and not what I could give her. I spent a lot of my twenties kind of challenging myself: What kind of attention could I get from her, how quickly I could bed her, and stuff like that. Mostly with a focus on how quickly we could get in bed (and not because I was tired). I was focused on proving myself in bed.

I thought this was fulfilling. I thought that's was a fulfilling relationship was. I was always very nice. Kind of a charmer. And maybe that's why there was a lot of confusion, anger, and clingyness when we would break up. "He's so nice to me, why is he breaking up?" Maybe there were more that said, "Fine! Beat it, loser!"

It is easy on this site to see women as objects because we have (we only have) pictures to make a first impression. Sure, there are profiles and bios, but who really reads those? That could be why a lot of women are turned off at the sight of a cock pic on here. However, men are turned on by pictures of sexual body parts. We're already starting out with opposite expectations.
Career Decision Made
Posted:Sep 20, 2019 10:39 am
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2019 11:14 am

I've decided I want be a strip club DJ. Admittedly, it has been a while since I have been in a strip club, but I'm certain nothing has really changed in the last years.

I would get say things like, "Oh yeaaaaah. Crystal's on stage one in her doll outfit! Make her your babydoll tonight... Don't forget to tip her guys!"

I'd get to meet all the girls. I'm sure they're saving to put themselves through college. So I bet the conversation would be intellectually stimulating. To be fair, I actually had a conversation about literature with a dancer while getting a lap dance when I was in a strip club in Toledo many years ago. She was pretty cool.

Do they still 80's hairband music strip clubs?
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You know what amazes me?
Posted:Sep 18, 2019 10:33 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2019 6:34 am

I am amazed how much interaction I get after membership runs . All of a sudden I am getting views, flirts and emails. For now I will remain a standard member so feel free message me IM or respond this blog!
Curling of Toes
Posted:Aug 20, 2019 1:24 pm
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2019 9:08 am

There have been a few times when I have given women outrageous orgasms. And sticking to what I know works, it doesn't always seem to work... even on the same woman.

I guess we all like different styles for different women and different times. I knew one woman who was like clockwork. She wanted A, then B, then some C followed more rigorous B. She would quickly using formula.

Others (most others) require more creativity with A, B, C and sometimes D or E and F. No order. Just take your time and enjoy the pleasure.

Personally, I prefer the creative challenge and can also understand the need to get off using the formula. Sometimes you can take your time. Other times there is less time available [(like when the are getting off the bus or her husband is on his way home (just kidding!)]
News For the Day
Posted:Aug 6, 2019 11:46 am
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2019 5:19 am

There is no new news. No sex news. No life news. Today has been a work-filled day and no time to think about sex... Until now. Actually, I'm not really thinking about sex as much as I am thinking about writing about no sex.

Exciting stuff, eh?
Sixty Nine
Posted:Jul 25, 2019 12:23 pm
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2019 8:42 am

Does anyone else kind of smirk or giggle when they see 69 come up as you're adding or a see page or getting change?
Member ship
Posted:Jul 24, 2019 9:55 am
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2019 11:08 am

Is it just me or as this site gotten more and more restrictive as to what a free member can do? I can't IM (used to get 3 per day). I used to be able read and answer emails. Now I can not even read them. Used to be able to view 1 cam at a time... not any more. There was some level of interaction available to free member and it seems that interaction would value to the site. Used to get points for signing in every day. Not so much anymore.

I would become a paying member if there was an anonymous way to pay (and there used to be an anonymous way to pay). But I don't know if I trust them with my card number and all my info. Oh the modern day problems!
Posted:Jul 22, 2019 11:22 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2019 11:31 am

So let's talk about masturbation. Here are a few reasons to indulge.

1 To release the pressure. It can be difficult to walk around with all that pent-up energy... Which leads to reason ...
2 Clear the mind so you can get on with your day.
3 If feels good. Sometimes we just need to feel good!
4 What, or who, do you imagine when masturbating? Let's face it. Sometimes we want someone and they aren't there. It sounds a little creepy, but you don't even need their permission. (And I don't know if I would tell them they are the subject of your fantasy unless you have that kind of relationship)
5 If you have more than one person in 4, they can all be together.

I'm sure there are a lot more reasons.
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When Cam Play Frustration Sets In
Posted:Jul 3, 2019 10:52 am
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2019 7:53 am

So I went through a period of my cam not working on my laptop. Now it works. Turns out I had to dig deeper into some settings. In the end its OK because I learned something new.

But now that my cam is working, I'm spending more time in an office... and not the home office. I kind of like my home office for the privacy it provides, especially when I want to on cam.

Now that I am in an actual place of work, no cam for me. I mean.. maybe I could. There are times that I'm the only one here.

Hmmm... Would you go on cam at work?
Posted:May 13, 2019 10:28 am
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2019 10:32 am

Anyone have a Mac and have a problem using their cam on here? I've gone through all the settings I can think of to fix it. Even plugged in an external cam. This exhibitionist is getting a little frustrated that his cam works for almost ever other website but this one.

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