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Retirement Plans
Posted:May 21, 2020 6:22 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2020 10:11 am
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I'm thinking about retiring. Maybe in another few years. I've had a plan get retirement, but now I need figure out what do while retired.
First part of the plan is boating. Buy a live-aboard boat and set sail. Bahamas, Caribbean, Great Lakes and the rivers in between. Maybe work a little while doing it.
Second part of the plan, I might need something less ambitious. Assuming I'm still healthy, I was thinking instead of a retirement community, why not a nice hotel? Stay in one place for a few weeks and move on the next. Even a nice hotel might cost less than a retirement home or community. I'll have maid service, concierge service, meals nearby and plenty of people around. All the while earning loyalty points that I can use towards future stays.

Just a few ideas.
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3 Days of Rain
Posted:May 20, 2020 7:09 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2020 6:07 am
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I've pretty much have had enough rain.
Day 1... Super productive. Not letting anything get in my way and start the week out right. The day zips by and looking back I got a ton of stuff done.
Day 2... OK, still raining. Little or no need to leave the house and can keep on working. Start at 8, a few visits to BlackSexMatch.com, and wrap it up at 6. Schedule a few appointments for later in the wee On the stupid computer and phone all day. Can still hear the rain on the roof.
Day 3... No motivation. Checked a couple of emails on my phone. Its :00AM and I haven't torn myself away from watching videos online. (Not putting name of popular video site here as it will probably be censored anyway.) Now I realize that my comment about censorship might be censored.
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Tan Lines
Posted:May 14, 2020 1:38 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2020 7:34 am
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I think I was or when I started making out with girls and getting 2nd base. It was summer after playing around the boat and at the beach, my friend and I managed get away from the others.

I didn't realize how developed she was until I saw her in her swim suit that day. I was certainly aware of girls and of their curves and bumps, but never really been close and personal. We started kissing... more kissing. I reached under her long hair and put my hand on her back and pulled her close . I could feel her against and I remember she said, "wait a sec," and pushed back.

I thought no! What did I do? And she reached the back of her neck and pulled the ties her bikini top. And down it came. Her skin was dark out side of her swim suit. And so light where she was covered! That was my first time being skin skin with breasts! And I loved it. Admittedly, I didn't know exactly what do at that point in my life. I finally figured it out a few years ago.

this day, that memory pops whenever I see tan lines.
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Profile Photos
Posted:May 12, 2020 11:24 am
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2020 8:10 am
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So it seems like I'm seeing more and more profiles with "fake" pictures in them. I mean they are real photos, but taken from other places the web. It is as though they person is trying depict what they want vs who they are.

I think the point of the profile is show BlackSexMatch.com who you are. Am I wrong?
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Back in the Day
Posted:Apr 30, 2020 6:33 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2020 9:41 am
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Back in the day, I had a few online places where I would go for adult interaction and risque conversation.

I was here. I used a dial up and the site seemed just a little out of reach of my connection's and computer's ability, but I still managed to carry on in chat, cam, and even managed to meet a few women.

I was also on AOL instant messenger. I forget exactly how that worked, but it seems AOL had some alternative chatrooms where you could meet and then go to AIM for a more intimate chat. People were really social it was cool and we seemed to self-police any bullying that took place in the room.

Yahoo IM was the same. Yahoo had the best alternative rooms. There was something there for every kink. I suppose that was also the reason for it's demise. I kind of miss Yahoo and AOL.

And finally craigs list. It wasn't really a chat, but if you wanted something hot and now you could usually find it there!

So it seems like we are left with BlackSexMatch.com. And that's OK. I criticize the platform for its cheap and obnoxious attempts at increasing revenue, but its what we have for now.
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A New Way To Make Money?
Posted:Apr 28, 2020 1:33 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2020 5:46 am
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I'm looking through my who's online search and lo and behold there are a bunch of "live model" profiles dispersed throughout more authentic profiles. What the heck? They don't even disguise the fake profiles now?
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A Cup of Tea
Posted:Apr 13, 2020 11:40 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2021 5:45 am
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Here's something that users of this site need to figure out. Not everyone is everyone else's cup of tea.

Two people, both perfectly nice, can decide that meeting up isn't going to work out for whatever reason. It is usually one person that makes that decision. And for the one that is rejected (and feels so rejected) should understand that it isn't going to work out with every person on here.

We are looking in on each other's lives through a very small, narrow keyhole. I think a lot of members of this site move things around in their metaphorical room and place those things in the view of the keyhole. You only see what they allow you to see. All of us do it, some without realizing it, and some more than others.

What's the problem with the keyhole? If you are looking for something quick and casual, not much is wrong with it. If someone is looking for a relationship, they need the door opened. They need to walk into the room and get the full view. That requires a lot of trust on both side of the door.
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Sarcasm and Emails
Posted:Apr 6, 2020 12:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2020 11:13 am
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Every now and then I have backspace over something that I know the sarcasm doesn't quite translate well the written word. For instance, when someone writes on their profile "no single men" several times, I want start with "Single man here!" Or when they mention "no smokers" more than two or times I want ask, "So what do you think about going out with someone that smokes?" (which I don't, but shows that I'm willing go out with the sarcastic response)

Then I think myself that they are trying get a message across and they probably wouldn't find the humor in my comments. That says less about them than the people they encountered and are trying ward off.

Changing gears... About the word ward. Wasn't Robin Batman's ward? And wasn't the TV character played by actor Burt Ward? huh... just thought of that.
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Wondering about the Current Normal
Posted:Mar 23, 2020 7:43 am
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2020 9:02 am
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I haven't really counted, but I wonder how school being out in a lot of the US is effecting people on cam. Do you suppose taking care of all day is putting a damper on fun in the home?
Of course I have also heard the somewhat joking term Coronababy generation. I'm wondering if that will be true for 'rents who already have .
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New Blog Post
Posted:Mar 13, 2020 10:14 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2020 1:42 pm
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You know, I've been thinking about posting something but I have very little to say. There are a few blogs that i follow on here and 2 of them haven't posted in a while. I miss them.
Do you have BlackSexMatch.com friends that you feel that way about? You feel a connection through their blogs? Maybe its just me, but there are some that I would at least like to meet in real life just to see who they are. Sometimes I wonder if they would like to meet me.
How often in life do we think "They wouldn't want to meet me", or, "I'm just right for that person!" Only to be completely wrong.
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Cold Hands
Posted:Feb 17, 2020 9:29 am
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2020 5:46 am
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Am I the only one? When you get a little nervous about meeting someone my hands get a little cold. Almost all other times my hands are actually pretty warm... But I find myself needing warm my hands up. If we meet, you see me rubbing my hands together, you will know why!
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Sox On? Sox Off?
Posted:Feb 10, 2020 8:17 am
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2020 5:47 am
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Do you prefer your partner keep his or her socks on or take them off during sex?
I'm a woman. Socks on.
I'm a woman. Socks off.
I'm a man. Socks on.
I'm a man. Socks off.
I'm a woman and it just doesn't matter to me.
I'm a man and it just doesn't matter to me.
I'm a little kinky and keeping one sock on does it for me.
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Favorite Foreign Language Porn
Posted:Feb 10, 2020 7:39 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2020 5:30 am
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In honor of the Oscars best picture, what is your favorite foreign language porn? German? Dutch? French? Italian? Russian? Something else?
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