Life in the Nursery~
 


Welcome to my little corner of the world. Please feel free to come on in, slip off your clothes and stay for awhile.

What you will read here are just random thoughts, dreams, and fantasys......whatever I choose to write. This is my life.

I tend to write whatever is on my mind, so don't take anything on here personally. I am just being me. I don't write about anyone specifically....so if you read something and it hits home, I seriously doubt it was about you. If it hurts your feelings I am sorry. Being open and honest is the way I am.

So come in and join me...., I have something special to show you.....here in the baby's nursery

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The 80sbaby
Posted:Jan 15, 2011 12:44 pm
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2021 10:28 pm
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Soooooo....I have gotten comments from men & women all over the place. And there are those that are standard members.....and they can't read my profile. So thought i'd be a nice baby and post my profile here so everyone knows where I stand!


I enjoy the company of men, preferably those who are single, confident and secure in themselves. Someone who is intelligent with a great sense of humor and pleasant to be around. I'm not looking for a sugar Daddy, just a man to share my life. For a while or maybe more.

I am open to expanding my horizions with men who are able to engage me both inside and outside of the bedroom. I truly believe that the best things in life are worth working for. I like a man who is real. A man who isn't afraid or intimidated by a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it. I am a handful, and well worth the effort. If you are a man who knows how to treat a lady the way she deserves to be treated then here I am waiting just for the taking. I am a single mom so my time to just go "hook up" is not there. I am looking for a 1 on 1 relationship with a man who is secure in himself. Please do not contact me if you are going to blow me off. I AM LOOKING FOR MORE THAN A ONE NIGHT STAND, I DON'T JUMP INTO BED WITH YOU ON THE FIRST DATE! Give me a chance, you might find that there is a real woman here available for the taking by the right guy. I am nice and caring, fun to be around, affecionate and very sensual. I am also kind-hearted and very real. What you see is what you get!

My Ideal Person: I like my men experienced, not looking for a young boy wanting to be taught. A man who is interested in getting to know me as a person not just a bed partner. I hope to meet someone who has more to offer than just a hard cock, regardless of size.I want a gentle lover who will knock my socks off! A man wanting to know my heart. Size and looks not an issue, heart and soul required. Sparks are needed for intimate fun. I am a real woman, not some Barbie, if you want Barbie they usually have them on sale at Wal-mart. I want to find someone who wants to know ME. So don't judge this book by its cover, open it up, read a little then check out the centerfold.

I don't judge by looks or size of cock .... I want a man who is secure in himself. Sense of humor, intelligence, heart, soul, great personality and able to hold a conversation are HUGE pluses!!
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Seriously?!
Posted:Oct 17, 2021 3:50 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2021 12:37 pm
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Ok…rant alert!!!



So, took a chance today. I accepted a invitation to go on a lunch date. Really sweet guy. We messaged, then texted & finally chatted on the phone. I was really looking forward to meeting a “normal” guy. Not some or a /grandfather looking renew their youth.

I did the whole thing! I took my time doing my makeup. Took my time doing my hair. And looked really cute. ( 😝 ). I drove to the destination. I waited patiently. And waited. And…you guessed it…I waited. I finally texted. No answer. Then I called.

He forgot!

Ok…should I really be surprised? Lol…such is life I guess.



Hugs & really WET 😘 kisses!
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Toasts
Posted:Oct 13, 2021 6:57 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2021 12:37 pm
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So….today is not a good day. I knew was coming. I prepared myself. But ’s still hitting me hard. I was planning on getting into my car and just driving. No destination…just driving. Luckily, a new friend hit me up and asked me to lunch. I so wanted to bounce on him. But…no. I knew I couldn’t do it today. After lunch, I headed back to the city. I found myself driving. Again…no destination. I found myself at a liquor store. I knew that I was going to drink, but I was making sure I would be in a safe place. I started my drive. I found myself driving. Drove to a place that held very bad memories. To my surprise…it is being demolished. That made me happy…I’m a very sick way. I took pictures. Anyway…I drove. And drove. I drove through quite a few towns. On my way home…a friend called. I told him what I needed. I needed. He thought that I was just being a flirt…I really did need to be held. To be kissed. I needed.

This song really is spot on. If you get a chance…go listen to this song. The words really .

HAPPINESS
By Taylor Swift

Honey, when I'm above the trees
I see this for what is
But now I'm right down in
All the years I've given
Is just shit we're dividing up
Showed you all of my hiding spots
I was dancing when the music stopped
And in the disbelief
I can't face reinvention
I haven't met the new me yet
'll be happiness after you
But was happiness because of you
Both of these things can be true
is happiness
Past the blood and bruise
Past the curses and cries
Beyond the terror in the nightfall
Haunted by the in my eyes
That would've loved you for a lifetime
Leave all behind
And is happiness
Tell me, when did your winning smile
Begin like a smirk?
When did all our lessons start like weapons pointed at my deepest hurt?
I hope she'll be a beautiful fool
takes my spot next you
No, I didn't mean that
Sorry, I can't see facts through all of my fury
You haven't met the new me yet
'll be happiness after me
But was happiness because of me
Both of these things I believe
is happiness
In our history
Across our great divide
is a glorious sunrise
Dappled with the flickers of light
From the dress I wore at midnight
Leave it all behind
And is happiness
I can't make go away by making you a villain
I guess 's the I for seven years in heaven
And I pulled your body into mine every goddamn night now I get fake niceties
No one teaches you what to do
When a good man hurts you
And you know you hurt him too
Honey, when I'm above the trees
I see for what is
But now my eyes leak acid rain
On the pillow where you used lay your head
After giving you the best I had
Tell me what give after that
All you want from me now
Is the green light of forgiveness
You haven't met the new me yet
And I think she'll give you that
'll be happiness after you
But was happiness because of you too
Both of these things can be true
is happiness
In our history
Across our great divide
is a glorious sunrise
Dappled with the flickers of light
From the dress I wore at midnight
Leave it all behind
Oh, leave it all behind
Leave it all behind
And is happiness

I am not a drinker anymore. I’ve yet open any wine since I’ve been here. Tonight…tonight though… I had a jack & Coke, a cranberry Bellini/mimosa & and now I’m on a cape cod. I’m going drink away this day.

Happy anniversary me… alone again. Tomorrow…tomorrow is a new day. New day…new life. I love you all. 🤟💍🥂🍸🍾💩
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Courage
Posted:Oct 10, 2021 6:50 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2021 6:58 pm
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This post is for me. Yes, I know that sounds conceited, but I think you will understand by the end.

For those that know me, know that I’m pretty much a submissive person. I apologize all the time. It’s from the damage of many people in my life. I’m now beginning to understand that it’s ok. I’m ok.

An old friend and I reconnected awhile back. It was nice, talking to them on the phone. They live in another state and would be coming back to Oklahoma for a visit. Excited!!! We agreed that we would have to get together and catch up. I’m sorry, but my life is chaotic at times. I have so many things and I’m going so many ways…. I forgot when they were going to be here.

Little background here, I love hard. Yes, I love lots of people. But that isn’t the same. There have only been 3 men in my life that stole my heart. And I never told them. One…way back in high school. I think he was honestly my first love. I remember everything, but I have moved on from him. The next guy came after my first divorce. He was just a friend. We flirted. I’m not stupid, I didn’t even know that I was falling. But I did. And he never knew. Still doesn’t. I still have in my life. But I have to guard my heart. He has always been there, in my heart, but he can’t know. Then there is the last one. Damn! This one. This is the one who I just reconnected with. This is the one who I fell hard for. This one broke my heart. He never knew, but he did. I knew walking into it. I knew that I was just “that” girl. I was the one to hang out with on Sunday watching football. I was the one he could get rough with in the bedroom. I was the one for that. I was never the one for more. I knew that. But I’m me, and I fell…..hard. Minime knew. She understood. She was rooting for me on the sidelines. She was also the one who knew that it would never happen.

Ok, so I am back. Yesterday I got a text. I had forgotten. I’m human. I heard that voice. We set a time, and hung up. Yes, I was scared. I texted someone and asked if this was ok…and got permission. I got ready and was out the door. Yes, several people knew where I was going to be. A dear friend taught me that lesson. I got to the hotel. I knocked on the door. And there he was. The jock. He was older, he was much wiser but he was still the jock. I was very happy to see him. I’m not going to go into any details of our evening. That’s for me. But I had a great evening. I ate. We chatted. We watched football. He gave me a key to his room. He thought I was going to stay.

I walked away. You have no idea what that means. I was the one walking away at the end of the day. I walked away. Friends with benefits…HELL YES! But, I’m the one walking away from someone who is amazing….but will never be my love. I’m ok with that. I needed that. I never thought that I would ever have the courage to walk away. But as I kissed him goodbye and walked out of that hotel room….I walked out proud.

I Walked Away!
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Aging gracefully
Posted:Oct 9, 2021 10:32 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2021 12:37 pm
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Hello playmates. I hope you are all doing well. Tonight I felt the need to talk about growing older. I mean, honestly, we all do it. But, hopefully we do with grace.

As I have grown older, I think I have gained some wisdom. But, alongside the wisdom, I have also continued to make some of the same mistakes.

I have gained weight as I have grown older. I’m not the cute Barbie that I was when I graduated high school. But, I don’t really mind some of the weight. I love the weight…it brought me my beautiful . Yes, I’m sorry but I’m not feeling much regret anymore. I’m trying to look at myself through other peoples eyes. Not everyone, but my friends. The people who tell me to shut up and believe in myself and to take the compliment.

I’m good with my age. I’m not looking to jump up and down (might pee myself) about the “big” 50, but I think it’s a good thing. I have lived longer than my mother. More than twice as long. So, I’m not feeling bad.

I was talking to a friend today. We were talking about growing older. We joked over the things. Sitting around watching football whatever and getting chilly. Needing grab a nap now and then. I’m not sure it’s all bad.

I’m also very thankful that some men grow older gracefully. I’m a sucker that salt & pepper. That crinkle around the eyes. I’m not going apologize thinking dirty thoughts. I’m good with laying my head on your chest of gray. I’m happy see those eyes filled with a 25 year determination. And I’m not gonna lie about that amazing sex drive.

So, I’m good with growing older. I’m especially good with some of the men growing older too! 🤗 Thank you to all my sexy playmates. And…here’s a towel the road…. ☺️😘🤷🏼‍♀️😇

Have a good night playmates. Hugs and big wet kisses (among other wetness) from me… the baby! 💋
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You have a SEXY body!
Posted:Oct 4, 2021 4:27 pm
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2021 4:28 pm
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Good evening playmates. I hope you are all well. Today I decided to laugh a at the emails I get. I’m sure many people get “those” emails.



“Your body is soooo sexy”. “Wow! Your pictures are !” Etc, etc…. But, let’s stop and think for a second. I’m a plus size woman. I’m not proud of my body. But, I am not stupid. I’m also a bitch! I at other women. I want be that sexy modelesque woman. I at some friends/family that are curvy….and they are ! Then I at obese women. And yes, are some that I judge. Minime scolds me. I don’t like looking at some “fat” women are showing a bit too much in public. I’m not talking cleavage or tight jeans. I’m talking about the short shorts that have bulges hanging out. Crop tops that need to be wash rags for the car! I hate that! We should support our fellow woman. I digress…. Anyway, those pesky emails.

I’m sure that if I was walking past you at the grocery store or pumping gas at the next spot… you wouldn’t spare me a glance. I’m ordinary. I’m plain Jane. I’m the fat in jeans and probably a rude tee shirt! But, then you need sex…. So you at the pictures on BlackSexMatch.com. And you start writing me that ….

I love you! I’m sending you all hugs and a real wet 💋
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Bring it on!
Posted:Oct 4, 2021 4:57 am
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2021 12:37 pm
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Good morning playmates!

I hope you are all doing well! I’ve missed you. I hope you had a sexy weekend. Emphasis on sex! None for me, but I thought about it! 😉

So…I’ve got a friend. Something about certain guys. Tall ☺️ Bald 😊 boots 😋. He is all that. He has teased me for years saying that I’m his girlfriend. I wish! He’s married. He told me that I choose to give permission for him to use it. 😎

I just talked to him. I might have to go change my panties…. 😚 There are a few guys that I know that have that sexy voice. The voice that will make you wet quicker than a lollipop! 😁

Well…it’s almost time to head to wor I’ve been up for 20 hours now. So work til 3:30, gym & then home to fix dinner. Have a feeling it’s going to be a long day.

Baby may need a teddy to snuggle up with at nap time. Big hugs and wet kisses….🧡🖤
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Sleepless in Okc
Posted:Oct 2, 2021 5:16 am
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2021 12:37 pm
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Hey playmates! I hope you are doing well. I’m thankful that the weekend is here. I’m also thankful that you are here! I’ve missed you.

I’m good. Ok, well as the title says….Sleepless. I go through these phases. I think too much! Can’t turn off my brain. I think about work. I think about my girls. I think about friends. I love hard and I think hard. I judge myself. I know I wasn’t the best mother. I know I wasn’t the best wife (obviously with 2 divorces under my belt). I know I’m not the best friend. I’ve hurt my friends (actually family) more than I ever wanted.

So, I think too much.

Last night I couldn’t stop thinking. I was having a “needy” night. I needed to be held. No, not talking sex. I’m talking about curling into his arms. Being held. Feeling safe from my thoughts keeping me awake.

I have a friend that I’ve known for years. He is a sounding board. I can talk sex. I can talk feelings. I told him I needed to be held. I mean who else am I going to tell? I’ve pretty much destroyed my other friendships. And, yes, I’ve got plenty of offers. But I’m too old for the crap I get in some emails. I’ve got a few friends who I enjoy talking to and getting to know.

So, yes, I’m sleepless in Okc. The smell of the rain is comforting. The sound of kitty is comforting to know I’m not alone.

Sorry, trying not to post sad etc. but every once in a while I’m sorry.

Have a wonderful weekend friends. I love and miss you. Hug someone today. And if you’re lucky baby will give you a hug and wet 😘

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Playtime for baby
Posted:Sep 27, 2021 2:21 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2021 4:41 am
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Hello playmates! I’ve missed you. Sorry, but I had lots on my mind and not all was good. So, I opted to not let the bad vibes come here! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

And onward we go.

I need some playtime! I mean don’t we all? All work & no play makes baby a cranky girl! Ok, so it’s been awhile. But I’m also partly at fault. I didn’t have any intimacy in my marriage the last 2+ years. I’m also honest & faithful, so I didn’t cheat. I also am not the best at self masturbation. Well, now I’m divorced. I’m putting myself back out in the world. I need a playmate. BUT…….

I am not looking for a quick wham bam thank you ma’am. I can’t just meet someone & screw. I still have issues with anyone seeing my body nude. I mean I can show you my boobs… but that’s pretty much all. I do have a friend who has offered. An old “flame” is wanting to see me. Suddenly a man from my past popped up with a message. And I’m talking to a guy.

But I want some hot…steamy sex! I want that slow, steady lovemaking. I want that breathless feeling of desire & pleasure. But….I also can’t just jump into bed with someone.

I hate having a conscience sometimes. I hate being moral. I am alone, but it’s my own fault. I am rebuilding my life. I have destroyed friendships. But, I am surviving.

****PS…..I was gifted a magic wand several years ago. I just ordered a waterproof mini today. And right now…..? Well, let’s just say….I’m glad there’s autocorrect! 😈
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Playtime for baby
Posted:Sep 27, 2021 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2021 12:37 pm
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Hello playmates! I’ve missed you. Sorry, but I had lots on my mind and not all was good. So, I opted to not let the bad vibes come here! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

And onward we go.

I need some playtime! I mean don’t we all? All work & no play makes baby a cranky girl! Ok, so it’s been awhile. But I’m also partly at fault. I didn’t have any intimacy in my marriage the last 2+ years. I’m also honest & faithful, so I didn’t cheat. I also am not the best at self masturbation. Well, now I’m divorced. I’m putting myself back out in the world. I need a playmate. BUT…….

I am not looking for a quick wham bam thank you ma’am. I can’t just meet someone & screw. I still have issues with anyone seeing my body nude. I mean I can show you my boobs… but that’s pretty much all. I do have a friend who has offered. An old “flame” is wanting to see me. Suddenly a man from my past popped up with a message. And I’m talking to a guy.

But I want some hot…steamy sex! I want that slow, steady lovemaking. I want that breathless feeling of desire & pleasure. But….I also can’t just jump into bed with someone.

I hate having a conscience sometimes. I hate being moral. I am alone, but it’s my own fault. I am rebuilding my life. I have destroyed friendships. But, I am surviving.

****PS…..I was gifted a magic wand several years ago. I just ordered a waterproof mini today. And right now…..? Well, let’s just say….I’m glad there’s autocorrect! 😈
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Which one ?
Posted:Sep 21, 2021 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 5:30 pm
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Good evening playmates! I hope you are all nice and snuggled. I wish I was....I do love me some snuggles.

I now have a note on my phone where I am jotting down blog ideas. These ideas come at me at some of the weirdest times and places! Anyone else? So this one...
this one came to me last night.

First off....I am a big flirt. I can talk some big talk when texting, phone calls etc. But when it comes to face to face.....I am a clam. I get so shy and don't know what to do. I guess it is a coping skill. It is even hard for me to look someone in the face if I don't already know them.

So, I have been talking to some men. I mean, I am human. I am a woman....and I do have wants and needs. Ok, so again, I can talk. Again, I get shy.

There are different types of women. There are the women who are the ones you date. You know, the ones you show off to your friends and family. They are sweet, wholesome if you must. You actually want to be with them. No expectations, just that sweet caring togetherness. Then there are those women who you might date, but they are definitely not so sweet and innocent. They are the ones who are possible girlfriends. They are mostly hang around get lucky. And down and dirty in the bedroom......or anywhere they want! Then there are the final ones. These are the women who might be a friend. They might be nothing. The only reason you have them in your book, phone etc....is purely sex. I mean honestly....that is what they are good for. Maybe they aren't the prettiest, the skinny barbie, or whatever... but, they make the best lover. But you don't want anyone to know you are with them. You only see each other on occasion. You meet up when nobody is around.

So, I thought to myself. Which one am I. I mean I could be dating material. I mean the right guy for me. It could happen. Not sure if I am the girl who is down and dirty in the bedroom. I mean, I could, but I think I lean more to the former. And... sadly, I know I am seen as the last. I have had men in my past, that is the one and only thing they saw. Hey, Baby.... wanna hook up? Can you come release my tension? Blow me? You get the picture? Yeah...

Ok, so.....tell me.....which one are you?

Hugs and big wet sloppy kisses.....baby


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Rewind
Posted:Sep 21, 2021 5:41 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2021 12:37 pm
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Wellllllll....... sorry. It was definitely a weekend! I was pushed to my energy limit!!!!!

Hi playmates! I hope you are all well. Changed, fed and all snuggly! I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. Mine was exhausting! Fun, but I was worn slick!

So, Friday night, a friend took me to see Alabama. I love me some Alabama. I grew up on classic country music. I like the way men look in those blue jeans. I love me a southern drawl. I like it all.... I mean, I was excited. Lol, I was definitely hot! I dressed up. I wore a dress that was a little shorter than normal for this old bird... It was to my knees! And I wore my boots! It was their 50th anniversary tour...…man that kinda floored me. I mean I wasn't even thought of yet....but I knew every word to every song they sang.

Saturday, I was off to watch my nieces soccer games. It was fun. But I was already tired from the concert the night before. And wanna guess who forgot sunscreen? Yup...baby got her ass burned. Not literally my ass....I would have been arrested! But I did get a bit of red.

I had a wonderful weekend. I really did. But it could have been better if I had a strong country boy with those tight levis and those hands to rub me down with some lotion...…

Hugs and big sloppy kisses from me.....the baby


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Would you rather.....
Posted:Sep 16, 2021 3:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2021 1:01 pm
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Ok, I love this! I had so much fun with the last blog I did. The answers were great. So, I figured let's keep it going!!!!

Would you rather be a top or a bottom?
Ok, so i'm still somewhat naive and had to look this up. I am submissive

Would you rather pay or be paid to have sex?
I don't think I could pay for sex. And I am sure nobody would want to pay me!

Would you rather have sex in a public place or in your parent's home?
Well, honestly? I did have sex with my first husband at my home and in his parents! And I have had sex in a public place....

Would you rather be able to only have kinky sex or romantic sex?
I would want romantic.

Would you rather have your hair pulled or have your butt spanked?
I like both, but I favor the hair pulling more.

Would you rather seal a first date with good sex or a passionate kiss?
Definitely the passionate kiss!

Would you rather have a threesome with your partner or cheat?
Threesome......I am not a big cheater or being cheated on!

Would you rather know when your parents are/were having sex or have them know when you are/were having sex?
I don't EVER want to think about my parents having sex. And I figure both my parents were shaking their heads watching me from heaven!

Would you rather go skinny dipping in the ocean or in the pool?
I think pool. I've done this a couple of times. Ocean....I am afraid of something crawling in places that would not be good!

Would you rather do it against the wall or on the bed?
I like both. Plus right now I have a platform bed....waiting to have some fun

Would you rather suck at foreplay or suck at sex?
I think foreplay. I mean hopefully my partner would understand.

Would you rather be handcuffed or blindfolded during sex?
Blindfolded

Would you rather be kissed on the lips over and over or be kissed all over?
I like both!

Would you rather have sex with someone who never showers or someone who never brushes their teeth?
Neither.....ugh

Would you rather be restrained or do the restraining?
Well I don't think I could be restrained. And I am submissive so no restraing of others.

Would you rather have sex with only one person for the rest of your life or a new partner every year?
Well I like the thought of my prince charming for the rest of my life. But, I also have the experience of knowing that isn't always the way it goes. So, I will go with new guy every year.
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