The Profile is There for a Reason  

thewildcouple969 47M/46F
2 posts
4/6/2022 5:30 am
The Profile is There for a Reason


Something that my wife and I have been dealing with lately is people that don't fit our profile reaching out and insisting that we meet them. We have come across some really aggressive people the past few days, and it's starting to piss us off. 90% of those that contact us engage us because of the picture, and when we tell them nicely at first that you don't fit our profile, they get upset and pretty blunt.

Our favorite is the ones that say straight on their profile..but by some miracle, it is all of the sudden bis. LOL, you're either bi or you not, and what the hell is bi-curious.

I ask those that engage us what bi-curious means to them, and the number one answer is..."<b> giving </font></b>each other a hand job"..no; that is not what bi-curious means. I get that our profile is decent..but you're an idiot if you think changing the verbiage of your sexuality will give you a better chance of being with my wife. I don't know if any other members have come across this and if you have, I would love to hear your thoughts and what you do to curb this major problem.

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
4/6/2022 9:05 am

Your frustration is understandable. I hope the dense can become enlighted. Good hunting.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
4/7/2022 8:23 am

I have written about this problem many time. My fav post on it is NO I am NOT one woman with 50,000 profiles and it is written with all sarcasm throughout it. So many get here and think this is honestly some free online whorehouse and no matter what they look like, distance, situation, age or desire the women on here will rush to service them if they just say "me next!" WRONG!! Many a straight guy has been hit on by the gay men. It is absolutely ridiculous how so many, mostly men, think that we somehow OWE them a fuck because well they signed up on here. WRONG!! I can think of a few sexual things I am sure they wouldn't be into, but they are here and should have to do ANYTHING they are asked by ANYONE that asks the same as us right?? LOL I mean why not have the straight man that wants your wife take 5 men's dicks up his ass and 2 on his mouth? Not interested.. well so what - you are HERE!!!! lol Don't want to eat a pile of vomit or shit?? Why not, you are HERE!! These are things they don't want to do but they somehow expect us to do everything they want.. WRONG!!!

If you want to see some emails that are just laughable, some make you angry, and some that will make you shake your head go on over to Rdy2try4's blogs. There is also one called [post 2608298] by JN63JPN.

I know it has been spoken of before in the blogs and by others so I went and looked. Do a search for "Bye Felipe Alexandra Tweten" and see what she wrote. The amount of men being assholes to women for saying no thank you is rampant on the internet as if women somehow are whores and should just let any guy use them. I am betting those same men would want to seriously hrt a guy that talked to THEIR daughter that way!!


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