My older brother is back home..  

young_sub_2020 24F
27 posts
8/12/2020 6:16 pm
My older brother is back home..


So! I live at home with my family. Usually, it's just my younger brother, my ma, and I, but yesterday my older brother called my ma and told her that he was on his way up.. to stay for good or until he finds a job and can support himself. I am SO pissed. He doesn't know how to take a joke or even vibe. He has severe anger issues and occasionally punches walls. He gets angry with me for the news sources I pay attention to. He gets angry with me because I enjoy knitting/crocheting and joke about how "housewife material" I am because I enjoy cooking and cleaning the dishes. My only means of escape from him are when I go to work.

I honestly don't know what to do anymore. He's turned the house into a mess. (side note: I'm also the only one who cleans the house and regularly vacuums.) There is trash everywhere! He's even turned my cat's play area into a trash pile/ storage area. (side note: she got her revenge [@anonymous_guy_99 lol] by puking all around his stuff).

I'd go out more to get away from him, but my bank account cannot handle that so I guess I'm stuck for now.

anonymous_guy_99 42M

8/12/2020 7:01 pm

HAHAHA!! That's awesome!! I love Bubs!


freetobeme9569 54F
180 posts
8/12/2020 7:23 pm

Find a roommate or two and move out..Its never good to be around anyone that unstable...good luck


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
8/13/2020 12:47 am

your brother sounds like a head case. i know because i have a brother like that too; volatile and short-fused. so, please take no offense.

covid makes everything worse and if seeking roommates or moving out are not realistic options right now, try and lay low, keep to your space and the less you have to say the better; meaning, don't make yourself a target for his stupid abuse.


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
8/13/2020 5:36 am

RE profile, doesnt sound like daddy is doing a thing tohelp you


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/13/2020 3:01 pm

I see you define yourself as a “sub”. Well, time to stand up for yourself and not allow anyone to run you. Anyone. Be you and for you. Sub sex is one thing but you cannot live free with that crap of a mindset to allow anyone to run your life. I know I have years over you to get to that point where I dont allow crap in my life. People treat us as we allow them to.
Don’t take his shit.


SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
8/14/2020 9:53 pm

Well that sucks. But in a way maybe it doesn't. If he is sitting around the house all day and not looking for work..... well then really sucks. Even in these difficult times unemployment should be paying him enough to maintain living on his own. If he is out looking for work then when you clean you should pile his trash in his living area..... and if he gives you shit. Be like oh thought that's were it belonged because the rest of the house doesn't look like this.... or at least it didn't until you came back. Hi five to your kitty for being the distributor of KARMA. Cats can be very pissy when they sense a person doesn't like them.


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