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CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/14/2020 5:52 am

Married cheaters unite!!

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Allhard4u50 62M
1725 posts
7/14/2020 5:55 am

Sometimes you have the right partner......just not the sexual partner you need and desire......cruel reality


cumnuts1 57M  
187 posts
7/14/2020 5:55 am

stay married and play together its a lot more fun and both of you might find what really turns both of you on.If both of you know who each one is playing with there is no fighting and you know who you are going home with the one you love and the reason you got married in the first place

just a thought. swing and be happy.,


milk69man69 59M  
90 posts
7/14/2020 5:59 am

There's just something about fucking a married woman that does it for me.


benard69 66M/66F  

7/14/2020 6:15 am

Cheating probably turns you on...


thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
7/14/2020 6:24 am

What you do is your decision, my opinion should not matter to you. It's your life, I am good with what ever you choose.


KlondikeGent 65M  
1 post
7/14/2020 6:45 am

I won't date, go out, or have sex with a married woman. It seems I am in the minority here though! But, I do have my standards, and, I simply will not do it - not even in my fantasies.


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
7/14/2020 7:46 am

Married and cheating does make it hotter to me.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
7/14/2020 9:42 am

Why not a couple profile with your husband? I am single and play with single men only. Guilty feelings have no rhythm...


maybe1932 69M/55F
44 posts
7/14/2020 9:44 am

Doesn't seem fair to the husband. Have you brought the subject up with him ? It might be something you could enjoy together. I know a lot of men fantasize about seeing their wife being pleased but not sure how many actually get to witness it.


neednewfun50 66M
141 posts
7/14/2020 9:57 am

My circumstance at the moment won't allow for a divorce so playing outside the marriage is the only option


fordfire4 48M  
284 posts
7/14/2020 10:06 am

I didn't vote because that is something that is 100% your decision to make. With that being said, yes, I thing you are incredibly beautiful and sexy and would I would have zero chance of resisting you if you asked to meet, but, life changing decisions are something that you need to weigh and make make on your own. Only you know what is best for you


BillCder99 64M

7/14/2020 10:59 am

get divorced and marry me


oralafternoons 63M  
20 posts
7/14/2020 12:07 pm

I think your question itself is interesting because you ask how many of US would prefer you in one status or the other. Fact is that's immaterial because in reality only you know your situation, desires, risks and rewards of one status vs the other. The real question would be what do you prefer? I'm sure regardless of your decision there are going to be more than enough people wanting to get together with you than you'd have time for.


fkmeallnitelong9 53F  
2586 posts
7/14/2020 1:01 pm

married and playing with hubby knowing everything works for us


Tiderising65 69M  
24 posts
7/14/2020 1:09 pm

Playing with a married woman is very HOT!!!!


Yogiessausage 64M

7/14/2020 2:22 pm

Married


bitchkitty2017 71F

7/14/2020 2:23 pm

    Quoting KlondikeGent:
    I won't date, go out, or have sex with a married woman. It seems I am in the minority here though! But, I do have my standards, and, I simply will not do it - not even in my fantasies.
Bravo! Good for you never support a cheater by cheating with a cheater ..lol


_IKanCu2_ 105M

7/14/2020 3:32 pm

Single and Free.

][ /\/ever will ever touch a Married.


apole4ahole 59M
82 posts
7/14/2020 8:45 pm

I had one relationship where the sex was amazing, but nothing else worked between us. I have had others where we were in complete sync on every level except sexually, What it really boils down to is what works for you. The opinions of the rest of us don't have any real bearing on your life and how you choose to live it. Do what makes you happy. If you were close to me I would happily be involved with you if we hit it off regardless of your marital status. That part of the equation is your business.


Somewhatshy0907 49M
26 posts
7/14/2020 11:18 pm

Married and Cheating doesn't do it for me but how about Married and Open relationship. Everyone can have their cake and eat it too.


old_stick 62M
83 posts
7/14/2020 11:21 pm

If your respect for your husband has dropped so low that you will cheat on him then maybe it is fairer to get divorced. However, you are a very attractive lady, I would find you difficult to resist whatever your status !


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
7/15/2020 1:04 am

Risk and freedom have nothing to do with it. Probably better if rewritten.
As far as married, no thanks. The fact that you use "freedom" leads to the same conclusion. Both choice of words say a lot more than most may think.

It's that easy to rule out potential partners/failures when you pay attention to detail.


kzoney38 41M

7/15/2020 1:18 am

I tend to stay away from married women. Way to much drama, even if the significant other gives you permission.


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
7/15/2020 2:27 am

Do your husband a big favor and get a divorce, Iā€™m sure it will be a major improvement in his quality of life. The best thing my x-wife did for me was to to get caught whoring around, divorce solved that problem and many others, lmao!


Suprcuk49 63M
257 posts
7/15/2020 5:38 am

Have to do what works for you.


lookin4funMOIL 61M/62F
472 posts
7/15/2020 8:14 am

we only play with married cpls but we both play


MonsterCacti 39M

7/15/2020 11:04 am

lets fuck


Yours_4A_knight 59M

7/15/2020 11:15 am

Honestly not supremely concerned either way, if you are available and interested and I am available and interested, we can sort it out. That doesn't mean that I want the drama of knowing and being friends with your primary guy, but if you're marriage works for you in all other ways, why mess with a good thing.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


I_willoralu 49M
1684 posts
7/15/2020 12:04 pm

Just choose whichever you want. It would not matter to me. I want to play with you either way

reach me in my blog titled private mail


ProfCocknCuntt 45M
603 posts
7/15/2020 1:05 pm

Never been married but believe in it. If you are unhappy just leave, Start fresh and live your life. Cheating is just petty and immature. Move on!


Mikemike107015 53M  
136 posts
7/15/2020 1:45 pm

cheating is a bad idea for everyone involved. however i prefer married women who have their so's blessing. i find it the best way to have sex with women who don't want to get serious. single women are overwhelmingly clingy.


Loslauridenuevo 33M/35F
10 posts
7/15/2020 4:29 pm

Swinger couple? Not option vote


Looking4FWB8238 42M

7/15/2020 4:52 pm

Be free. Don't cheat


Smilodon333 54M
6 posts
7/15/2020 10:36 pm

Stay married and get your spouses permission. If you are miserable in your marriage, or course,then leave.


Donald77 70M
31 posts
7/16/2020 5:54 am

Our relationship started out as open, both of us liked enjoying others. We loved each other but also liked being with others, single or together. We have been in this relationship for 27 years. In the last few she has lost interest because of a stroke, but encourages me to continue because she know I have needs. It has been great, vary interesting at times also. I have slowed down and it is not as much fun since she has stopped. She at time now calls my/our female friends to come take care of me cause I'm grouchy from not getting any. Married or not we always made sure we were in it for just the fun, didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.


Darioetdina 43M/38F
1 post
7/16/2020 8:32 am

We do it together. We have limitations, veto and we come first.


Seekfunnn 23M
11 posts
7/16/2020 9:51 am

Yes


FrustratedLvr 61M

7/16/2020 1:07 pm

Having an illicit affair has its merits, also complications.


Suppletitties 63M
291 posts
7/16/2020 2:48 pm

nothing like to married angry, repressed people getting together for some hot nasty super pleasurable sex that you know has a beginning, a middle and an end within a boundry................ than you go home and think about when you're getting together again.

It is the fucking best after 20+ years and several long time partners as well as every adventure in between


ItsThtPervertGuy 44M
484 posts
7/16/2020 3:13 pm

Divorce and move on. Cheating is wrong and if a person has any kind of morals or ethics then you should avoid the guilt no matter how bad that person has hurt you they will be hurt in the end once they see what they had they will never get again and someone else not has it. And don't cheat with allot of people. Quickest way to STD's. Don't sex up allot of people Period with out check ups and protection!


1pusssylick00 53M

7/16/2020 7:22 pm

Move on cheating is not the way to go . You might talk him into letting you play without him or let him watch but donā€™t hurt the guy divorce is the best way if there no way selvage the marriage šŸ¤™šŸ½


Azbear1969 54M
85 posts
7/16/2020 9:46 pm

If you and him cannot come to an agreement of both having permission to have fun with others, then it would be time to leave. Luckily, my wife and I have each other permission to play with other as long as we know what each other is doing. I see another woman weekly and she knows it and is fine with it.


xNewsPhotog 61M  
243 posts
7/17/2020 3:22 am

If you still love him, but NEED sex I say stay.
If your need for sex is too much for him and it is leading to trouble then get out while you can.
Either way, I certainly would not turn you down. LOL


Ayokooked 25M

7/17/2020 5:39 am

Go single, don't cheat


nudeatdaranch 58M  
7 posts
7/17/2020 7:29 am

I would say move on. Cheating or "open" relationships just seems to lead to further inconvenient issues,afaic. Been there,done that. One or the other gets too much, the other partner left in the cold, and in some cases even unwanted pregnancies, as I've a friend in that situation. Too much hassle for my taste! IMHO.


letsplay71563 61M

7/17/2020 2:43 pm

I voted for staying married unless you want to get out of the marriage. Sounds like what you are doing works.


Open2Fun2020 57M
33 posts
7/17/2020 6:25 pm

I voted for freedom. Just a personal choice or preference with me. Unless you know everything about a married person and their situation (hard to do if you're just meeting them) it can be full of surprises, not all good. You just don't know. It's not in any way a judgement of anyone, I'm not against it at all, like I said it's just my personal preference.
But 007 James Bond preferred married women and he seemed to have a pretty good life!


funwithafrend 55M

7/18/2020 9:49 pm

Better to keep things unchanged and explore your desires


Sandi2346 74M
14 posts
7/19/2020 12:49 pm

I am a single male. I really shouldn't comment. I do find a lot of couples that swing or the woman says she is free to do what she wants. When I was young I never crossed the line with married women. Now I would.


spwildbill77 66M  
87 posts
7/20/2020 9:17 am

I find it ironic that so many state "Freedom" like it were all or nothing. In this day and age, you are free to do what you want. You can have your freedom and still be married. Sex becomes a recreational sport for fun...enjoy the moments when they occur. If you become obsessed with it, maybe that will become a problem. It CAN be more exciting if you include your spouse but not necessarily. You can flirt and fantasize and if you happen across someone who, at that moment is on the same page as you...knowing it is meaningless and just for fun...do it. Enjoy yourself. If you have doubts or guilt...then it's not for you.


Lance_Goodthrust 66M
353 posts
7/20/2020 9:28 pm

Congrats on your new job.
If the travels ever take you up to western Canada, let me know.
I would love to show you around my part of the country. There are lots of sights to see.... lol.


BICoupleNM 56M/59F  
4 posts
7/20/2020 10:30 pm

I have been in the lifestyle for 25 years and I have seen some horrible things come out of cheat situations. This is why we do not play with anyone who is in a cheat situation no matter how much we would love to play with them.


johnm2475 47M

7/21/2020 7:11 am

People can give their advice and it really means nothing because they do not know what your home life is like, for example do y'all argue & fuss all the time, Is he or you mentally or physically abusive to you or you to him, do y'all have sex on a regular basis if not how long between before you have sex with him, do you all get along with each and love each other but the sex is just gone, do you and him love each other but the physical attraction is not there anymore, just so many questions that needs to be answered before you follow anyone's advice, just like my situation, you need to ask yourself if cheating with another man is worth giving up your marriage also it just depends if your husband cares if you cheat or not, he might not even care if you cheat, he might done be cheating on you, so many unanswered questions to this that needs to be answered first before you listen to anyone's advice


wannarock2006 58M

7/22/2020 5:11 pm

Why stay with someone you don't want to be with?


mike1958773 65M
945 posts
7/22/2020 9:00 pm

pienso que ser libre es la mejor alternativa pero casado no me gustarƭa engaƱar si me caso ya no se vale poner el cuerno hay que aceptar la responsabilidad de mi acto


3200Ram 42M
210 posts
7/24/2020 4:03 am

it's depend on partner .. some partner allow to sex with others.


Lucky010101 65M

7/24/2020 2:01 pm

Medical reasons prevent having sex with my wife, so when opportunity knocks, I answer....


zxasxz46 73M
1 post
7/24/2020 7:28 pm

Hot as you are either way, wow


tastemeY 57M  
148 posts
7/25/2020 7:32 am

The last 2 girls I've met on here are both married. One is cheating, and the other,,,,,,,,, well I guess she's cheating too but her husband is much older, and not interested in sex anymore so she's getting what she's missing at home.


Ubsurprised81 41M  
40 posts
7/26/2020 11:13 am

Everyone has their own thoughts when playing but I think itā€™s more of the thrill for ones I have been with


urjourneyman2 68M
7 posts
7/26/2020 6:37 pm

I have dated married women in the past and found that I get turned on being with another mans wife.


Bonnie_N_Clyde79 52M/45F  
9 posts
7/26/2020 6:44 pm

My wife plays with married men frequently. We find it easier. They are more interested in sexual fun without an emotional attachment. SIngle people are generally lonely and need more than sexual fun.

I have also played with several married women. Picture here is of the last one. Sheā€™s a blast!


IMaMagikman 38M
119 posts
7/26/2020 11:52 pm

Voted. Everyone has their thing.


this52isacrock 71M
5 posts
7/27/2020 2:39 pm

Whatever works for you. I prefer married women because I think there is a lesser chance of STD's. The thrill is greater too.


newbieinco 61M  
18 posts
7/27/2020 7:36 pm

In a somewhat similar dilemma. Love my wife, but not able to get what I need (loving touch even more than sex). Haven't actually cheated, yet, but intellectually willing to (hence my being on this site).
That being said, if you are in my neck of the woods, give me a holler. I'll take you to dinner, and we can talk.


dessertgarden 54F
33 posts
7/27/2020 11:16 pm

not knowing the specifics of your situation, I shall refrain from voting but comment. I am currently married, asexual situation that he wasn't honest about before marriage. i waited many dry and emotionally empty years before making the decision to cheat and when I did, i told him, it really didn't change much in our lives.

i guess my advice would be to identify the ability and opportunity for open communication, perhaps poly is the more appropriate route or approach. if the marriage is open to the discussion of having a partner or partners who are able to satisfy needs not being met within the marriage itself. good luck to you


bandit5_0 54M
79 posts
7/28/2020 6:37 am

If you are married and cheating you are the sorriest piece of shit on the face of the earth. Grow up and get a fucking divorce so you can get away from from the shit storm YOU got yourself into. Nothing wrong at all if you have sex with others AND YOUR SPOUSE APPROVES IT.....NOT JUST OK WITH IT BUT ACTUALLY APPROVES IT. When I was younger I dated a woman who was in an open marriage - learned ALOT about how that dynamic can work successfully - sad to say I have yet to meet anyone else who can pull it off as good as they did. For that reason and the fact that people can end of getting killed over that shit I avoid married women all together.


want2meetasap 63M
21 posts
7/28/2020 7:37 am

every situation is unique. but cheating there is usually no commitment or attachment. its about the fun and thrill of sex without anything expected after.


firemedic6150 61M
5 posts
7/28/2020 2:09 pm

Enjoy yourself. The ones complaining about cheating are just jealous. If you ever travel my way look me up.


allaboutfun250 55M
14 posts
7/28/2020 4:31 pm

If he isn't meeting your needs, then he deserves to be cheated on because you are a beautiful sexy woman. You can visit me in Maryland anytime.


suesteve14 49M/46F
8 posts
7/28/2020 6:09 pm

you come first and foremost


funwithafrend 55M

7/28/2020 8:21 pm

You may just need a little extra-curricular activity


Trexxmexx 53M
5 posts
7/30/2020 2:50 pm

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Redfingermr 31M

7/31/2020 12:00 am

    Quoting Sandi2346:
    I am a single male. I really shouldn't comment. I do find a lot of couples that swing or the woman says she is free to do what she wants. When I was young I never crossed the line with married women. Now I would.
I totally agree!


BeachAndHike2020 36M

8/3/2020 11:27 pm

Id say it is ok to stay together for kids, property, living location, job, etc. If you can get free why not go for it?


NSA_14694 41M

8/5/2020 2:44 am

What she dont know wont hurt her.


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
8/5/2020 7:00 am

Something on the side is fine so long as you know what you want.
Doing with another married man you but know that's as far as it goes but you get what you want and go home to what you have.


Shybuttfun90 34M
11 posts
8/5/2020 12:39 pm

Varies by situation. Sometimes the relationship is fine aside from sex. So why rock the boat? Just safely get what you need without dragging him into it


Passi0natefun4us 39M

8/5/2020 5:23 pm

I prefer single women, but always exceptions if there's a good match


openguy4kink 54M

8/6/2020 4:47 pm

Whatever floats your boat. You should get your man to.play. Have him.please you and do something naughty that makes you hot.


Funsun4cpl 70M
7 posts
8/8/2020 2:12 pm

Some women just like variety, it excites them. I like a married woman with at least one other married boyfriend, regular married 3somes are wet, wild and super fun.


Nikk5772 24M
2 posts
8/9/2020 2:41 am

Love any mild or wife who wants to discreetly meet


Chuck697469 49M
9 posts
8/16/2020 2:11 am

I would check with my wife


lo3ver 64M/64F
3 posts
8/18/2020 6:48 am

Depends on 3 things, simplifying a lot..
- How much do you love your spouse, and can you talk to him/her about your needs
- Do you have young kids
- Money... can you go it alone?


dark141552 33M
17 posts
8/19/2020 10:53 pm

I don't like bull shite


dark141552 33M
17 posts
8/19/2020 10:57 pm

Merry Christmass lol


Yesus172 74M
14 posts
8/21/2020 11:11 pm

Todo depende de lo que quieras hacer,si no te sientes bien con tu marido divorciate,si solo quieres divertirte con otros y seguir con tu marido porque lo amas,pues diviƩrtete.


skyCaptain603 63M

8/24/2020 2:29 pm

well speaking for the single guys consider this we have a lot to offer too.


Blondie8Dagwood 76M/68F  
7 posts
10/16/2020 12:05 pm

If you tell him it may easily get you to the divorce. It may however be a relief to him knowing he doesn't have to provide for some of your needs. Could turn into a blessing....


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