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Dating standards, where did they go?
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Dating standards, where did they go? When I meet a man......A REAL MAN. He knows automatically what it means to show appreciation towards a woman. I am capable of and can afford my own coffee but is it lost??? The chivery? The non verbal gesture that says, you are so worth my time, I want to be here, I want show you I appreciate the time you have set aside for me. I will always love the man who acts like a man. I got this message : "If you can't buy your own coffee, you're a moocher without a job. You're also slapping every woman who fought for equality in the face." Am I slapping women in the face by asking to be courted by a man in an old school way before opening my legs and fucking the shit out of him because he impressed me so much??? I am looking forward to feedback  |
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I agree with you! Coffee is coffee! If I asked you out, be it for coffee or drinks or dinner, I would pick up the tab! That's just how grown ass men are suppose to act! Its called a date! And chivalry shouldn't be dead! 
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You made me feel so much better already. How do we set a standard?
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Sorry to hear that. This site definitely encourages the worst in some fellas. Have you tried your luck on mainstream sites? I know plenty of guys there are looking for the same, easy hook up but it might be a little better. How to set a standard of acceptable behavior. I think all you can do is ignore the bad ones until they get the message.
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Standard sites you find persons are less open minded.
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Cincy you know I would buy you coffee as we have already discussed. Chivalry or should I say the lack of it started with the key FOB. Men just hit the button to unlock the car door instead of opening the door for a woman. It is a shame men forgot how to treat a woman like a lady. For any who think this goes against women's right or equality is just too lazy to try and impress a woman. My Bite Is Way Better Than My Bark, And My Nibble Is Even Better. 
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I always open doors, pull out chairs, send flowers, treat, etc.....up until the woman seems to expect it, then the party is over. Chivalry is about being a gentleman, but that is in alignment with being a lady and a lady is thankful, not expecting. I am very much a traditionalist and my nature is to do for others, but it is done from graciousness. For me, as soon as it becomes expected, then I turn my back. On the flip side, if the guy wants to split the bill or sees things as a 50/50 scenario when going out....he is weak weak weak.
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I appreciate the feedback. Well spoken.
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you can't fix "cheap asses" only thing that works for them is the "delete" button There are many men willing to take a lady out, being on a sex site or any other site for that matter, doesn't mean free for all. You can be assured when they are cheap they are lousy in bed the cheapness extends there too...    je ne regrette rien
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3/26/2017 6:41 am |
Many of the basic and common sense things we were shown or taught growing up seem to be non existent anymore...............
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No guy is ever asked or would even give two "F's", about what they prefer and want; and how that might impact all men. Why the hell should you!? You know what you like. You know what you want and need. It's not just your right to ask for it, but to demand it being just so.
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Whoever sent you that message has allowed a culture of disjointed thinking, standards, and gender classification to ruin whatever is left of the two brain cells that person still possesses. That said, however, we cannot ignore that feminism has greatly contributed to the utter preposterous notions of what constitutes sexist attitudes. Indeed, some, (too many, in my opinion), men have become afraid of exhibiting or expressing behavior that might be considered condescending towards women. Therefore, "open your own door, pull up your own chair....buy your own coffee" are now the accepted norm in how men interrelate with women - unfortunately. I have no problem in opening the door(s) and lead my lady to the table. Never mind that I did the latter by putting my hand on her (your fine) ass......I'm shallow that way. lol 
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