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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/23/2020 2:07 pm

OK, you have just taken rambling from a simple Allman Bros song to a tumbleweed being blown (see what I did there) across the Oklahoma plains - meaning from Colorado to Alabama.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/23/2020 2:50 pm

Holy crap, I forgot the question.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
7/23/2020 2:54 pm

One man's trash is another man's treasure.........so it stands to reason that one man's quantity is another man's quality........obvs-uh! I'm pleased that I was able to clear that up for you and in fact for once answer the question you didn't ask. You're welcome.

My celebrity crush is BumbleBee from the Transformers, it always remains modestly attired, despite changing shape and fighting the evil decepticons. Ya gotta love it......

Or maybe JLo, or maybe Michelle Obama, or maybe you........


santeeman1 62M  
5 posts
7/23/2020 3:05 pm

As long as she is true to herself and stays consistent...she's a turn on for me


xNewsPhotog 61M  
243 posts
7/23/2020 3:30 pm

Not sure what you mean by "Quality" women.

Some clothes / no clothes makes no difference I'll still look at the profile; especially if I think "she" is attractive.

This site seems to be sending me lots of "young ones" to view, but I prefer someone close to my age (plus or minus 10 years) and relatively close to me as well.

Good luck getting the "right" answer, but have fun too.


gentlelovrjust4u 66M  
195 posts
7/23/2020 3:34 pm

Like everything else, "Quality", as you put it, is in the eye of the beholder. Just like some men are into boobs or butts or legs or what have you, that is what "they" will use to decide what a "quality" lady is for them. From what little I know of at least some of the men on here, they are looking for quantity over quality anyway.

The other part of your question, about the naked female pictures. I, like most other men, have personal physical preferences. Of coarse I would like to see naked pictures of the ladies. Even though I consider myself to be a gentleman, I am still a man. What I want to see in a profile are head to toe or at least full body pictures that give you a sense of the persons figure and body type. That way you can decide if you feel this person would be a good fit for you. I, personal prefer a lady with larger breasts. She does not need to be a skinny minnie but I have been with a couple of ladies that would be considered larger BBW's, and though they were very nice ladies and I still chat with one of them, I am not sexually attracted to larger BBW's. So that is why, rather than wasting a ladies time and possibly hurting their feelings, I prefer to see full body pictures wearing clothing where I can tell their body type.

That is my take on what I believe you were asking.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/23/2020 3:47 pm

Theo James. (Sorry, I’m on my iPad where it isn’t that easy to save and link images)


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
7/23/2020 4:01 pm

    Quoting  :

LaLa, I don't believe men on this site are looking for 'quality' women ... they are looking for women who are DTF.

exactly my thought...


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
7/23/2020 4:29 pm

I want QUALITY DICK PICS....but probably asking too much...men on this site ain't gonna understand that...phuck...they can't even understand what quality women are...


dogslife2live01 71M

7/23/2020 4:37 pm

i just love a good put down phrased as a question!
finally! we agree. no man of quality would look for a quality woman here. if you check the live members webcams , you will notice women disgracing themselves for a few points... but wait there a couples that o the same. i guess that would make her a quality woman for that quality of man.
but if you look to the sidebar. you know that place where the guys talk to these "ladies". somewhere along the lines of what they should shove up where... and how long they would like to eat at her joint... i guess that would be a "quality" woman... for that "quality" of man
then of course there those women that cry to be noticed by posting not one, not two.but as much as seven blogs with pictures they have "borrowed from the internet. and yet they have their following of men slinging praise to images they have no chance of ever making contact with.
i guess that would be a quality woman for that quality of man
i would venture to say the quality of a woman a man seeks would reflect the respect that the man has for himself.
as for me i would equate looking for quality women on BlackSexMatch.com would be like searching for a brain surgeon on craig's list .
that is not to say that there are no women of refined quality here... just that the way BlackSexMatch.com portrays itself i chose not to invade their private (mailbox, IM, hot list) spaces here
bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
7/23/2020 4:38 pm

Having read William Faulkner since I was in high school, I am fine with your stream-of-consciousness writing!

To your primary question:

Not to parse syllables, but "quality" has (at least) two related but still distinct definitions.

One definition is comparative: a standard of excellence and how the "quality" of someone measures up against others. The second refers to a distinctive characteristic- an attribute a person has that is attractive, or at least remarkable.

In terms of the former (first) definition (comparing one person against another), my experience is that few (if any) of us have a surfeit of choices available to us.

I will boldly assume that most members of this community think of quality in terms of the latter definition. One commenter indicated that "larger breasts" is a "quality" that piques his interest. Indeed, many of us signal our preferences and attempt (however futilely) to screen-out those who we find (or at least believe to be) unattractive.

Recognizing that our community is a broad sampling of humanity, it is reasonable to assume lindoboy's observation that "one man's trash is another man's treasure" is accurate, albeit a bit blunt. Our preferences are filtered and subjective, often to the point of being irrational and delusional.

My approach attempts to be positivistic. Rather than fretting about breast size, body type or zip code, I try to focus on how we complement and interact. To be sure these "qualities" need more than a pic (or 2) and a terse profile narrative to be illuminated. To this end, a reciprocated investment of time and energy is required. That said, I will attest that the results have been more than worth such investments.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
7/23/2020 5:08 pm

First of all - I'm a little worried that I followed your confused tale.

On the bright side - with my Wisdom of the Ages - I can answer your question (even though I'm not a guy). A quality woman (or man, for that matter) is one that you are not ashamed to introduce to friends and family ... especially to your mother.

My current celebrity crush is David Baker from Forged in Fire but you can never go wrong with Sam Elliott and his dancing Dorito mustache

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
7/23/2020 5:24 pm

And here comes the outlier.

A quality woman is intellectually engaging, open minded, inquisitive of things beyond her own little world, and neither she nor her life has the appearance of a train wreck. Period, regardless of context.

There's no correlation whatsoever between a woman's willingness to share / post dirty pictures and her qualityness.

My celebrity crush for the past thirty years has been Christy Turlington. Her beauty is such that I made the model name of my latest silencer 'Christy Turlington'. Pew Pew

Were there other questions or did I cover everything?


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
7/23/2020 5:49 pm

Ocht, awright then, I'll gi'e it a go.......but just read this in the same context as your post........I may ramble and digress........

For me, 'quality' is perhaps not the best word as that infers something measurable or objective. Perhaps appealing, or piquing further interest would be better descriptors?

Anyhoe (no pun intended), the starting point for me is almost always the written word. Does the woman display an ability to articulate, is there any discernible intelligence in the words? Then it would be photos, are they tasteful, irrespective of the state or otherwise of undress? Sometimes it can take preliminary enquiry to get to that point, but at that point I will either request conversation, or not.

But yes, while my assessment of the girl may lead me not to pursue things further, the next fellow's assessment may be completely different.

Of course at my end of the age spectrum, it's an ever evaporating puddle, so I have to say that while my preferences haven't changed, the frequency of any initial enquiry certainly has.

And of course all of this assumes that you were curious about what provokes the initial interest, because yeah, it's no' that clear from yer post!!

And


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
7/23/2020 6:23 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    First of all - I'm a little worried that I followed your confused tale.

    On the bright side - with my Wisdom of the Ages - I can answer your question (even though I'm not a guy). A quality woman (or man, for that matter) is one that you are not ashamed to introduce to friends and family ... especially to your mother.

    My current celebrity crush is David Baker from Forged in Fire but you can never go wrong with Sam Elliott and his dancing Dorito mustache
Bingo!!! SuperBJ has it down pat.. I was sitting here after deciphering your ramblings. Decided to read the comments and see what others thought you said.. Knowing how you talk and how it looks on paper I actually followed the sense of the context.. A southerner knows how to read another!!
Some one that the kids would like, that my friends would appreciate.. Able to speak and understand my language. A Barbie Doll she does not have to be. Healthy, attractive, educated and sincere would be on top of my list..

PS... I think you have been out on the loading docks again watching the guys.. You just gotta stop this. It puts thoughts in your head that make you ramble!!!!

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/23/2020 6:35 pm

Well then....now that I'm on my desktop computer, here you go. I agree, his lips are to die for!

[image]


Mr_Mercedes 61M
617 posts
7/23/2020 7:52 pm

I don't know what I am looking for here, but I'll know it when I find it - or when she finds me.


Looking for Mischief


dogslife2live01 71M

7/24/2020 12:41 am

BiggLala replies on 7/23/2020 7:47 pm:
i just love a good put down phrased as a question!
-Oh yeah? You'll love this then. What motivated you to join this site, and why are you still here?
Your profile states that you seek, "someone that is not afraid to live their dreams... but has the ability to see reality." It seems you seek women, but does that then mean you're not a man of quality?
to be honest. i really do not remember what motivated me to join this site. at to the part of looking for a woman that is not afraid to live their dreams.
REALLY! in order for one to live their dream one first one must KNOW their dream... if you have to ask that question then you are still working the job you hate, going places you don't want to go, kissing asses you want to kick.
the phrase ...but has the ability to see reality, simply means a person that can see that no one person is better than another person. that it is true that we are our brothers keeper.
as to why i am still here... simple standard members can still interact on the blogs...
as to proving the rest of your questions.... been there. done that. only to be torn to shreds by someone trying to prove their superior knowledge, and extraordinary powers of perception
bonne chance et bonne vie

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


loneleix 64M
978 posts
7/24/2020 1:39 am

Just my own personal opinion....

Applying a tag like quality to a person has more to do with putting down people who don't fit the tag than praising those that do; whatever the variables used to arrive at who is or isn't quality. It's a description that speaks more about the person who uses it than the person it is aimed at. I would suggest that the very idea that there are people who are not quality people is universally offensive to start with.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/24/2020 3:04 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Well then....now that I'm on my desktop computer, here you go. I agree, his lips are to die for!

    [image]
Yeah, that guy reeks of quality to me. He can be dumb as a post but, well you know, I think I could deal with it. Shallowness may be creeping into my old age.🤦‍♀️


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/24/2020 3:51 am

I crush easy:

Daniel Craig
Jason Momoa
Hugh Jackman (the Wolverine version)
George Clooney
Sam Elliott


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/24/2020 6:41 am

Were you high or drunk when you wrote this? Or did the bugs just eat some many words I couldn't follow?

My GENERAL response to (what I believe may have been the point here) is that I don't really think in terms of "quality" as such, but do prefer women that are smart, fun/adventurous, pleasing to look at, and YES have some curves - but those first can VASTLY override the later too.

As far as maybe a sub-theme about posting naughty pictures, I do personally find suggestive ones more fun, but if a woman has a shot of her wide open pussy on her profile, it's not going to drive me away in and of itself.

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seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
7/24/2020 7:01 am

Christ! some of the responses were as bamboozling as the blog
I did note that all the men that replied were over the age of 50 .. maybe age makes a difference? If you're a younger man you probably seek quantity, but the older gent.. prob over 45 .. you seek quality.
Personally I would never show naked pics... I frighten men off enough without revealing all and you never know where they will show up


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
7/24/2020 9:14 am

This might confuse you even more?
I'd rather think of one way to say a thousand different quality things to a woman, than think of a thousand different ways to say one thing to her.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/24/2020 11:51 am

    Quoting positively4you:
    Yeah, that guy reeks of quality to me. He can be dumb as a post but, well you know, I think I could deal with it. Shallowness may be creeping into my old age.🤦‍♀️
I rationalize to myself that celebrity crushes are not exactly the same as the pick and choose process that we go through in choosing someone to become involved with. It's all about surface attractiveness since, let's get real, Theo is in England and he's married and 28 years younger than me!

TLDR, I'm shallow too!


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
7/25/2020 12:45 am

Cheeses McBiggles......intelligent, articulate, bonnie.........all round fucking stunning...........ye're gorgeous.........

Dinner be sae insecure......mony a man and wummin wid jump ye in a flash ower here


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/25/2020 6:33 am

BiggLala replies on 7/24/2020 1:09 pm:.....
-In what way does that wide-open pussy shot influence your opinion of her?

*******

I don't "judge" her per se (we're all adults entitled our own beliefs and standards) It just makes me feel like she is not the kind of woman I'm interested in meeting.

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QuitetheSOP 57M
122 posts
7/25/2020 12:07 pm

What's a quality woman...

One who doesn't make you wear a paper bag over your head in bed;

One who appreciates the sexual ecstasy that a sturdy one and a half inch penis can provide;

One who at the end of sex says "Wow that was the best five seconds I've ever had."

Above doesn't apply to me of course, oh no it definitely doesn't... erm I was just saying on behalf of "a friend."

Regards SOP


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/26/2020 6:55 am

BiggLala replies on 7/25/2020 10:09 pm:
Is this one of our challenges with miscommunication and/or word usage? I'm thoroughly confused now. You know I don't need help with that dammit!!!

Okay...I'm just clarifying because you first said a woman with a wide open pussy shot will not, "...drive me away in and of itself." However, you now say she's not "...the kind of woman I'm interested in meeting." Again, I'm just asking because that does sound like the open pussy shot drives you away in and of itself. 🤔
(And to be clear, "judge" was your word, not mine.)

*******

Communicating with you can surely be an exhausting effort. Are you this way in bed too?

I think the challenge is that you see things in a binary, right/wrong, black/white way, whereas I am the master of gray, shading all decisions. (Legacy of being a married cheater perhaps.)

A pussy shot will not .drive me away in and of itself - I don't consider her a bad person for posting it.

Not the kind of woman I'm interested in meeting - Perhaps I should have included the word "possibly" in here.

LOTS of factors in the decision to meet (or even to contact). Posting a wide open pussy shot seems a bit crude, or even desperate, so it is a minus, but not an end all killer. Does she seem fun? Smart? Adventurous? Well then I'm not going to reject her just because she posted her pussy on a sex site.

WHEW - does this (sort of) make sense now?

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FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
7/26/2020 8:11 am

I don't think you'll get a straight answer because it is just so subjective. And because each man probably doesn't have a definitive answer. And because after all the information has been gleaned from her profile, her photos, her blog pages... you still never know until you meet her.

Also, for me, a quality profile will have a lot to say, hopefully in both words and pictures (a man likes to look... don't tell me women don't too!). But while I have never rejected a profile just because there weren't any naked photos, I have rejected many that had naked photos but no text in their profiles (now I though that it was against the rules, but there's plenty of profiles like that - not even "I wanna fuck" ).

Instead of asking what men might want, I think you should be asking the reverse questions - what sort of men do you want to attract and what sort of men attract you? You might get more attention if you post a close up, lips-a-gaping pussy shot... but do you want men who aren't interested in you until you show your undercarriage? You are not just on a sex site, you are deeply involved in the conversation on that sex site... I don't think that you need to strip to demonstrate that you're interested in sex! Equally though, if you do want to strip, if you think it would say something extra about you... then do it! It can be quite liberating


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/26/2020 1:25 pm

>>But why is it that we do that when we find out our celebrity crush is married or something. Like, yeah...not like I had a shot in hell. Or is it just ME who does that? Okay...

Haha no, I am TOTALLY the same. "What - he's married? Dang!" As if.


Ubsurprised81 41M  
40 posts
7/27/2020 2:34 pm

For me it doesn’t matter if you have clothes on or off to catch my attention because I have met some amazing women that pic showed them being lazy and comfortable. Their face or shape caught my eye and there train of thought is what got me and I will say one was hiding a killer body and understood why she didn’t show it off and attract all the creeps


MaxCumz 45M  
4 posts
7/27/2020 6:33 pm

Ahh men and women are all the same. Quality is implied by the packaging. To bring it to it’s most base level, you’ll all pay for a turd in a box.. if the box looks pretty enough. Its not till later that you realise it’s actually just a turd.
Personally from your inspiration to start this post, I think you must have misread quality for quantity.


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
7/30/2020 2:38 pm

"Of course, that leads me to again wonder why the hell I'm still on here. "

Anyone with any self-awareness does


Giveitago1269 39M

7/30/2020 5:25 pm

Great read. Good luck!


Paradox12121 54M
133 posts
7/31/2020 3:49 pm

A 'quality' woman is someone who intrigues me intellectually first, then stimulates me physically.
I have no idea where things go after that and there are no guarantees anything will work out.
It's just a thought.

Nothing much to say.


srkaficionada 70F

7/31/2020 8:40 pm

I’m just here to answer the celebrity crush question. I’m all about the Indians, male and female alike.
1. Shahrukh Khan. [image]
2. Hrithik Roshan. He’s just pretty.
3. Sid Malhotra.
4. Kajol
5. Ms Zinta.


MaxCumz 45M  
4 posts
8/1/2020 5:41 pm

Must be my depraved sense of humour


Pleasure_You01 57M

8/1/2020 7:39 pm

A good post.

In my opinion, you have to be normal but also a little more provocative as a man here. What's wrong with that? I think we all search for quality in real life but it has become so random. Personally, I like photos of women/couples with clothes off or on but write something decent and understandable in your profile as well.

Just remember, it's more difficult for a man on here so maybe we have to be a little more perverted, not a nice word I know, to generate female interest.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
8/4/2020 2:53 pm

When I read this I was totally confused. Were you drin keen g when you scribbled this?
Was that the intent?
Going back five months was a real stretch.
No worries. I guess ya have a lotta free time. Kool!
Just accept the fact that you're not my type and move on. No need to invent stuff and feel bad and invent things.
Sexist? 🤔
Nope.

Sheesh...


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
8/4/2020 2:58 pm

o and puhleez...
let's keep those lines of communication open.
Let's not start closing doors. After all, you're so open minded and all.
Highlight myshortcomings for your phans.
It'll be so much fun, no? 🤔


mamacita38dd 45F
62894 posts
8/5/2020 6:54 pm

    Quoting  :

They don't own a mirror my friend... they can't see the asses they make of themselves I guess

Please Visit My Blog MAMACITA38DD


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/6/2020 12:03 am

I read that idiot's comments yesterday, what a prick. He's been taking lessons in narcissism from someone, that's the only explanation I can find for him being able to misconstrue that this post was all about him. Either that or this is yet another example of him 'never drinking' while posting.

And yet people still seem to pander to him, like flies round shite.........

Hope you're well m'dear.


carl_denham 60M

8/6/2020 5:57 am

While I think quality is inherently subjective, I think that for a man he will see something in a woman that reflects what he values. Some men value class, some value sexual availability. Some may want a sense of humor.

If I think about it more objectively, quality would lend itself to higher sensibilities. It would indicate being educated, articulate, an ability to navigate social situations (even difficult ones), and self-sufficiency (both emotionally and economically).

It also may help to introduce a scaling system. Where I grew up, there were three kinds of women a man was interested in. Those you fuck, those you date, those you bring home to mom (or eventually marry). I've fucked those I would never date, dated those that I would never marry. To marry, I need to have loved fucking and dating them. But generally, quality for me would fall into the third category...


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/6/2020 11:43 am

Phluck me gently, I've just read that comment. I don't know why I'm surprised, because he's one of the most arrogant people I've ever come across here. But I am. It kinda confirms everything I ever thought about him, he's just one of those guys who thinks he's all that, always out to prove a point. Clearly very insecure and looking to drag people down to make himself feel better. But sucking the life out of things as he goes.......I'm going to drop that comment into his post, for his adoring public to see.

I have to confess that this place is feeling a bit jaded for me at the moment. Too much drama, Paul no doubt delighted that he's managed to put himself in the centre of it. For the first time ever I'm struggling to enjoy the lunacy of it all. Just cannae be arsed.

Hey, there are worse things in life than being fed up with the ville of blogs.

When can we get back to skelping arses, that's what I want to know!?!?


mamacita38dd 45F
62894 posts
8/6/2020 1:59 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I read that idiot's comments yesterday, what a prick. He's been taking lessons in narcissism from someone, that's the only explanation I can find for him being able to misconstrue that this post was all about him. Either that or this is yet another example of him 'never drinking' while posting.

    And yet people still seem to pander to him, like flies round shite.........

    Hope you're well m'dear.
You know my friend, I have a always said you were a smart man and we have sparred in the past, but I have to give it to you, as you are speaking the truth here, blogland got rid of one Narcissist a few years ago and now we have another and a troll minion to complete her... lol!

Sometimes you just have to speak the truth let the Asses show everyone you were completely right about them

Please Visit My Blog MAMACITA38DD


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
8/6/2020 3:26 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I read that idiot's comments yesterday, what a prick. He's been taking lessons in narcissism from someone, that's the only explanation I can find for him being able to misconstrue that this post was all about him. Either that or this is yet another example of him 'never drinking' while posting.

    And yet people still seem to pander to him, like flies round shite.........

    Hope you're well m'dear.
McF**k... I knew it wasn't about me. Get blah blah to explain!
Get with the program ffs...

Oh you people are so funny .

Hey Blah blah... How did you read my reply to your troll?
Back door fun? No worries.

Keep blasting me and have a good time. No balls to even quote me. Seriously... What better way to boost your numbers? lol...

I know who I'm dealing with. Anathema headquarters for the lame and lonely?

Have a pleasant evening. Keep bashing me. No worries...


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/7/2020 3:07 am

Och, you'd never ruin my blogging fun. You're one of the main reasons I remain.

You're right, I need to snap out of these doldrums, stop letting the diddies suck the life out of things, and get back to blogging about the issues of the day. As in, the effluent of the day.......yes......jobbies.

Igualmente mi guapa, igualment! x

They should really invent an emoji for skelping, eh?


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/10/2020 2:48 am

ps - he has respect issues, he truly believes everyone else is beneath him.

pps - I've never done the ps's first, so in this case ps = pre-script.

So, a skelp is a spank, a smack, usually in reference to the arse, eg, he/she/it's got a face like a well skelped arse. But it can also be used to chastise someone, eg, if ye don't shut up I'll gi'e ye a skelpin' roon' the lugs. (If you don't stop talking I'll smack you around the ears.) It can be versatile, a bit like masel'!

We need a proper emoji I tell ya!!

And, when your future plans to live in Scotland come to fruition you'll be fully equipped with all of the local vernacular. You're very welcome.......


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/13/2020 9:33 am

?* Just looks like a ? and a * on my screen. ?* Even when I pick it from the emojis.....

No matter, yer arse is still gettin' skelped........


monroeguy49 53M

8/13/2020 4:38 pm

A quality woman, one that you take a chance on and
no matter what her past was, or what worries you have
about her future are forgotten because there is magic
when you're together.

Thanks for commenting!


Suppletitties 63M
291 posts
8/21/2020 1:01 pm

quality is a function of a few clothes not being important to me...................all in here mental game


Ginnung2 44M
180 posts
8/21/2020 8:15 pm

Quality means such different things to different people. Robert Pirsig's two books Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance and Lila: An Inquiry into Morals are both largely explorations of what quality means, and the latter in particular is about a woman who the author considers to have quality but whose peers think she lacks it.

I suppose I would say that what I consider quality is based on character and health. I'm more concerned about how responsible somebody is with their sexual health than with how many notches they have on their bedpost. The latter just isn't important to me, and I've had partners on both extremes.

There's this bizarre concept that sex is some kind of currency that men take from women, with a large number of sexual partners enriching men while demeaning women. I don't get it, personally. It seems like misogynistic nonsense to me.


Avonsenior 70M
1458 posts
8/23/2020 9:06 pm

Lala I think a lot depends on how old the guy is and maybe how long it has been since the guy scored or how much they have had to drink that day. The younger guys may have a hang up looking for a larger breast size OR ?
I find your profile pic with your tongue licking your lip being sexy and I think is a turn on. i also like granny872's beautiful smile.
Overall each person finds something that appeals to them at a certain time.
I know a friend that would say he liked blondes and then be out with a brunette that next week. So we change and that is not bad


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