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"Throwing the first stone"!
"Throwing the first stone"! I have a friend who been fucking up for years! He's a bull-shiter , crook and a lier and his wife is nieve! He so good at lying he can get you to believe his Shennanigans! In life sometimes things comes to and end or we reap what we sow. This guy is lucky, he always "Get of of jail free card". He mess up and never learns. He got an answer for every situation and being on a surveillance camera, he would alway say the same thing. "It wasn't me"! He been doing this to his wife and for 20 years. Still shcoked, she has no clue! Several weeks a got him on expired tags and there was a warrant for his arrest, with multiple charges. So when he called his wife, he deny all the charges. "It wasn't me'! Knowing him, he's guilty! I bet for all the charges. His wife told me his has bail is $175,000 and she not going to get him out. Did his luck run out? I want him to learn from what he done, for if he never learn he would always be a repeat offender. So I had that mindset when I talked to his wife. So when asked, I mentioned stuff in a round about way and even volunteer information, for she had no clue. He fooled her for 20 years and I mentioned that he had another life, a criminal life. That he's selfish, a crook and don't care. It was revealed about some of his affairs. He messed around with this woman 3 years, and ofcourse, she had no clue! After all I said, I fiqured his wife deserve better. Then my conscience got to me. So was I wrong for letting her know his dirty. I felted bad for her. I exposed a lot, and his relationship with her might not be the same. I have early morning appointment, but last night I could sleep. I kept thing about a quote from the bible, about the woman who committed adultry, some men was going to stone her. Jesus said " He without Sin cast the first stone". Maybe I should had let God handle the situation? I meant well, but I feel like I stoned my friend, eventhough he was wrong. I was so mess up and did make it for my appointment. I felted so bad, maybe I should be the one being stoned! |
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5/27/2021 1:26 pm |
Well my friend you know sometimes we just have to say what is on our minds. I am sure his wife appreciated you telling her all his dirty deeds. I hope she gets smart and tosses him to the curb. I am glad she left him in jail he needs some time to think about all the bad things he has done. I hope you enjoy an awesome Thursday..
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Well my friend you know sometimes we just have to say what is on our minds. I am sure his wife appreciated you telling her all his dirty deeds. I hope she gets smart and tosses him to the curb. I am glad she left him in jail he needs some time to think about all the bad things he has done. I hope you enjoy an awesome Thursday..
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5/27/2021 7:40 am |
I think you did the right thing, too. She would've found out sooner or later. Wives always do! We have a friend that has led his life the same way. Nothing is ever good enough. He cheats, lies, exaggerates all the time - needs a bigger house, more badass motorcycle, bigger pool, bigger deck, etc... He was cheating on his wife years ago with this coke whore. He and his wife divorced, now he has to deal with this scumbag of a girlfriend who doesn't work, took over his bank account, and constantly brings in her worthless kids and grandkids. It's killing him, he knows he screwed up, but here he sits. Lately, he lied about the motorcycle he sold to a gang member. Not good. They're coming to get him.
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5/27/2021 7:36 am |
I have told people that I will not rat them out but I will not lie for them either. It was a married friend meeting a GF out of town at a seminar we were all attending. I wasn't going to call his wife. But if she asked, I wouldn't lie to her either. He made sure I never saw his GF so I could honestly say I did not see him with anyone else. Thankfully she never asked about that weekend.
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5/27/2021 7:32 am |
Hi my friend, I had to. His wife was believing the lies and we could had got her back in his web and he would had gotten another "Get out of jail free card"
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I think you did the right thing, too. She would've found out sooner or later. Wives always do! We have a friend that has led his life the same way. Nothing is ever good enough. He cheats, lies, exaggerates all the time - needs a bigger house, more badass motorcycle, bigger pool, bigger deck, etc... He was cheating on his wife years ago with this coke whore. He and his wife divorced, now he has to deal with this scumbag of a girlfriend who doesn't work, took over his bank account, and constantly brings in her worthless kids and grandkids. It's killing him, he knows he screwed up, but here he sits. Lately, he lied about the motorcycle he sold to a gang member. Not good. They're coming to get him. Have a great day, and be nice to one another.
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That is a though one... *. *. *
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I have told people that I will not rat them out but I will not lie for them either. It was a married friend meeting a GF out of town at a seminar we were all attending. I wasn't going to call his wife. But if she asked, I wouldn't lie to her either. He made sure I never saw his GF so I could honestly say I did not see him with anyone else. Thankfully she never asked about that weekend.
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5/26/2021 8:46 pm |
tough call. did you tell him for her good or for your good? " His wife told me his has bail is $175,000 and she not going to get him out" you could have just agreed with her and left it at that. and in the end, when she changes her mind, and after they have the makeup sex... you will be the bad guy bonne vie
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5/26/2021 8:36 pm |
Not sure you were throwing the first stone as much as helping someone who could potentially be hurt very badly. I see you as a hero not a bad guy.
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5/26/2021 8:18 pm |
I'm the last person to judge anyone about anything but, I have my 'lines'. Your 'lines' are yours to own and do with what you will. ❗❗😎
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tough call. did you tell him for her good or for your good? " His wife told me his has bail is $175,000 and she not going to get him out" you could have just agreed with her and left it at that. and in the end, when she changes her mind, and after they have the makeup sex... you will be the bad guy bonne vie there is a world of difference between insane and stupid
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5/26/2021 7:15 pm |
Hi my friend, I appreciate the feedback, awesome feedback. I probaby should had mentioned it to her years ago. We got back in touch 9 years ago, and it was 8 years that I knew. He mentioned to me that he was going to get help and stop messing around. I didn't want to ruin the marriage and I really didn't know her, I met her twice in 9 years. I guess If I did know her like I knwon him, I might had told her. But, I feel good she knows now! My freind, I appreciate your opinion!
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Not sure you were throwing the first stone as much as helping someone who could potentially be hurt very badly. I see you as a hero not a bad guy.
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I'm the last person to judge anyone about anything but, I have my 'lines'. Your 'lines' are yours to own and do with what you will. ❗❗😎 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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5/26/2021 5:12 pm |
So if this was bibilcal time and somebody was a snitch, would they be stoned?
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